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Author Topic: Young men, beware marrying Novus Ordo women  (Read 4626 times)

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Re: Young men, beware marrying Novus Ordo women
« Reply #5 on: September 27, 2018, 04:24:17 PM »
Unless he was hiding serious abuse (which I doubt), there is no justification for running off to the courts, seeking divorce, child support, trying to drag out the proceedings and drain him dry, etc.

The woman in question is acting like a pagan, not even a Christian or novus ordo Catholic.

I bet she considers herself eligible for marriage again. At least she gets to be a hero single mom with 2 kids.  ::)

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Re: Young men, beware marrying Novus Ordo women
« Reply #6 on: September 27, 2018, 05:19:57 PM »
I bet she considers herself eligible for marriage again. At least she gets to be a hero single mom with 2 kids.  ::)
Sad to say, there are trad chapels where a single mom gets more respect than an "old maid" who has kept her purity while working in the world to earn her living.  I'm not sure which thread this comment belongs in, here or "unkind trads."  A number of years ago I was turned down for a job at an SSPX chapel because I was the old maid---considered tainted by living on my own and working in the world, and "suspect" because I'd never married or had children. They had difficulty filling the position because of wanting someone with experience willing to work for very low pay.  They gave the position to---you guessed it!----a single mom, never married, with three children, a recent convert, no prior experience, but needed work.  A trustee told me that I'd be "an unsuitable example" to those I'd work with.  
It shows that even the most "devout" trads can have their minds steeped in liberalism and be oblivious to their hypocrisy.
It is as well I did not get the job because the entire project was cancelled after a year when the priest was transferred.  The new priest saw it was not working so wisely shut it down.  The single mom soon stopped going to Mass, and about two months later asked for a reference for her new job, a similar position at a Protestant church, where she was then going with her kids.  
She was a person in search of "religious welfare," not of Truth.  


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Re: Young men, beware marrying Novus Ordo women
« Reply #7 on: September 27, 2018, 08:22:27 PM »
Sad to say, there are trad chapels where a single mom gets more respect than an "old maid" who has kept her purity while working in the world to earn her living.  .....
I keep hearing about all these "trad chapels" where things like this are said.  All I can say is that people on this forum sure do have a lot of experiences with some demonic "trad chapels".

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Re: Young men, beware marrying Novus Ordo women
« Reply #8 on: September 28, 2018, 01:51:05 AM »
I wonder why that single mom stopped going to mass, ‘old maid’. Maybe it was because other people judged her for daring to convert with three fatherless children. How did you get all this dirt on her? Was it religious welfare or are you just making assumptions? 

Maybe she needed that job more than you.

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Re: Young men, beware marrying Novus Ordo women
« Reply #9 on: September 28, 2018, 07:34:42 AM »
So, maybe I’ll be stoned for this, but doesn’t seem like you got her side. There are three sides to every story. Maybe he was no St. Joseph to be married too, and maybe the trad church they were apart of didn’t set the best example, or provide counseling.

Sorry, but unless there's serious abuse, there's no moral justification for leaving your husband.  Stop making excuses for these special snowflake women.  It's like on the thread where women were refusing to satisfy the marital debt and a bunch of people kept invoking the various psychological and emotional issues that might "justify" that kind of behavior.  At the end of the day, the moral principles are clear ... and the emotional issues can be dealt with separately.