Ladislaus-
Let me make an additional observation, not about the thread, but about you:
You typify everything that is wrong with forums: You flew off half-cocked in favor of your own personal opinion, ignorant that the saints opposed it. But rather than repent and modify your opinion, you dug your heels in (where you clearly should not have), and consequently you became not an agent of truth, but a proud defender of libertines.
Better would it have been had you taken a breather, read St. Alphonsus, and then come back later if you still had some objection (which, you would not, had you truly read St. Alphonsus).