I think I have a mixed view here:
It seems clear that excessive makeup is unanimously condemned (but what is “excessive?”);
It is POSSIBLE (BUT NOT CLEARLY THE CASE) that sparing use of makeup MIGHT be permitted (particularly if not visible?), though I can easily imagine many saints banning any use of it at all;
But PRESUMING slight use of makeup is permissible, I find the priest’s rationale in the OP very questionable:
The idea that it is external and superficial beauty which makes the person a fit temple of the Holy Ghost (rather than the state of the person’s soul), is worldly and uncatholic.
If makeup made one a fit temple of the Holy Ghost, why have the convents never permitted cosmetics and even gin so far as to require the shaving of heads? And by this same rationale, wouldn’t a beautiful slut be a more fit receptacle for the Holy Ghost than a homely Saint?
My wife and one of her friends were discussing the issue, and her friend opined that trad women need to look beautiful (again equating beauty in purely physical rather than spiritual terms, and suggesting nice grooming, hygiene, and clothing/dressing simply aren’t sufficient), or people will be put off by their perception of Catholics, and not want to join the Church.
That seems to be a similar argument to the one the priest is making. But isn’t this really a repackaged version of the fundamental principle of Vatican II:
“We must adapt to the modern world, and meet it on its own ground, if we are to convert it?”
That strategy hasn’t exactly yielded good fruits!
And I hate to be rash or suspicious, but that seems so obvious to me that it is difficult to believe those contriving such arguments are really persuaded by them (self-justifying sophisms).
Maybe if the priest had left out the part about physical appearance making the person more fit to be a temple of the Holy Ghost, I would not have sling-shouted so far in the opposite direction, but it seems to me to be shocking worldliness and liberalism to think like that.
He should have left that out, acknowledged many saints condemned cosmetics, gave a firmer warning against subtle vanity, stressed the inner spiritual aspect of true beauty, and then cautiously conceded makeup at home for the husband or to cover blemishes, etc?
But to wear it as fashion seems uncatholic (and condemned at Fatima as well).