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« Reply #210 on: June 18, 2025, 04:29:16 PM »
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  • I'm just too aggressive she says.

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    « Reply #211 on: June 18, 2025, 04:38:42 PM »
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  • Another bout with the wife. The usual of telling me to leave and regrets of marrying me, but a new addition that she let me in on. She said she can call the police and have me removed (I'm in her country currently) because she doesn't like the tone of my voice. Its full of anger. Oh, and that she will take our son away. Quarrelsome.
    Well....you've gotten yourself into a hell of a mess. Seems to me you've got a decision to make; either keep on with your current habits of thinking and the obvious downward spiral to disaster that you're both on.....or grow up.

    Ultimately the problem is you.

    Deep down you know it. 

    It's YOUR life, no one else will or can live it for you. Only it's not just your life now; you have a wife and a child.


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    « Reply #212 on: June 18, 2025, 04:42:29 PM »
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  • Another bout with the wife. The usual of telling me to leave and regrets of marrying me, but a new addition that she let me in on. She said she can call the police and have me removed (I'm in her country currently) because she doesn't like the tone of my voice. Its full of anger. Oh, and that she will take our son away. Quarrelsome.
    What an entitled woman. She can live on the streets. Withhold affection from her. Record everything she says in case she actually does that. What a manipulative horrible woman, I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.

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    « Reply #213 on: June 18, 2025, 04:44:26 PM »
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  • Well....you've gotten yourself into a hell of a mess. Seems to me you've got a decision to make; either keep on with your current habits of thinking and the obvious downward spiral to disaster that you're both on.....or grow up.

    Ultimately the problem is you.

    Deep down you know it.

    It's YOUR life, no one else will or can live it for you. Only it's not just your life now; you have a wife and a child.
    She needs to grow up. What are you saying? She’s likely acting like this because she can. He seems like a good husband and you’re not helping with those comments. 

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    « Reply #214 on: June 18, 2025, 04:44:33 PM »
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  • That would be too easy if the problem was me. The problem is that arguing leads to horrible things be said. Especially on her part, "threats of breaking up family". Just need to find professional help. She has no interest in pro help unfortunately.


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    « Reply #215 on: June 18, 2025, 04:46:30 PM »
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  • What an entitled woman. She can live on the streets. Withhold affection from her. Record everything she says in case she actually does that. What a manipulative horrible woman, I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.
    ...and...just in time...an enabler to tempt the OP to keep on the path of destruction.

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    « Reply #216 on: June 18, 2025, 04:48:20 PM »
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  • ...and...just in time...an enabler to tempt the OP to keep on the path of destruction.
    And what is the OP doing? Enabler? You’re either a white knight simp or feminist. 

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    « Reply #217 on: June 18, 2025, 04:50:31 PM »
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  • She needs to grow up. What are you saying? She’s likely acting like this because she can. He seems like a good husband and you’re not helping with those comments.
    Pardon my uncharacteristic bluntness, but that's just dumb. You know this woman? Do you actually know this guy? You ever dealt with a dysfunctional couple? Please stop enabling this guy. Whether you realize it or not, you are hindering him from growing and becoming a man.


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    « Reply #218 on: June 18, 2025, 04:54:25 PM »
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  • She needs to grow up. What are you saying? She’s likely acting like this because she can. He seems like a good husband and you’re not helping with those comments.
    I say how I'm sick of being constantly criticized. She has something to say about everything I do and how it's wrong. She says I don't listen to her because I don't do everything the way she tells me to do things. And if I point this out she has a long excuse about why it must be done that way and of course these are all meaningless things that don't make a huge difference. Tje  about money and how if something happened to me, she would be on the streets with our son helpless which is horse manure.

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    « Reply #219 on: June 18, 2025, 04:55:23 PM »
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  • The woman sounds like a full-blown feminαzι.  You can’t run a family with a wife like this.  

    However, what option is there, short of walking out the door?  Practically, can you talk to her family/friends and see if they agree that she’s unreasonable?  She needs an intervention.  Women do respond to social pressures.  

    You also have to pray like your life depended on it.  The devil is trying to destroy another family.  He’s good at it.  But God's grace, and your power as head of the family, is more powerful.  

    Are you going to the sacraments regularly?  If not, then God can allow the devil to cause chaos in punishment for your lukewarmenss.  If so, then you have to forgive your wife and pray.  

    If the family is all on her side, then only Our Lady can help.  

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    « Reply #220 on: June 18, 2025, 04:57:43 PM »
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  • Pardon my uncharacteristic bluntness, but that's just dumb. You know this woman? Do you actually know this guy? You ever dealt with a dysfunctional couple? Please stop enabling this guy. Whether you realize it or not, you are hindering him from growing and becoming a man.
    Simp. You’re enabling this abusive wife. The wife has already threatened to call the police for no reason and you are ignoring that? Maybe you need to read this thread again? And you don’t know this man yet you have poor deductive skills. What is this man doing? Can you answer the question?


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    « Reply #221 on: June 18, 2025, 05:00:16 PM »
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  • Pardon my uncharacteristic bluntness, but that's just dumb. You know this woman? Do you actually know this guy? You ever dealt with a dysfunctional couple? Please stop enabling this guy. Whether you realize it or not, you are hindering him from growing and becoming a man.
    Do you this woman? Do you actually know this guy?

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    « Reply #222 on: June 18, 2025, 05:02:51 PM »
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  • If there are any priests, seminarians, or religious out there reading this thread, or if any of you are questioning your vocation, it’s time to give thanks to God!  And pray for this couple. They need prayers, the child(ren) especially. This is how children’s lives get messed up and souls go to Hell after losing the Faith.  
    :pray:

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    « Reply #223 on: June 18, 2025, 05:09:34 PM »
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  • The woman sounds like a full-blown feminαzι.  You can’t run a family with a wife like this. 

    However, what option is there, short of walking out the door?  Practically, can you talk to her family/friends and see if they agree that she’s unreasonable?  She needs an intervention.  Women do respond to social pressures. 

    You also have to pray like your life depended on it.  The devil is trying to destroy another family.  He’s good at it.  But God's grace, and your power as head of the family, is more powerful. 

    Are you going to the sacraments regularly?  If not, then God can allow the devil to cause chaos in punishment for your lukewarmenss.  If so, then you have to forgive your wife and pray. 

    If the family is all on her side, then only Our Lady can help. 
    I could receive the sacraments more.

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    Re: Wife defrosts meat on the floor
    « Reply #224 on: June 18, 2025, 06:05:07 PM »
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  • You're not going to get far if you can't manage to have a discussion with your wife without losing your temper.

    Is her family Traditional? If you're in her country and the family is Catholic, go and ask her parents or siblings for advice.