Yes, I pray for her all the time. Every day.
We could be more romantic, but it is difficult with the two kids being so young. But even if we go out and have a nice date and do something fun she'll still make excuses, it was this way even after our first child.
I'm sure she'd love a break, so would I, but that's not really feasible at this point. I work in IT and sometimes I have to work a lot of hours. Not always, but sometimes. I also sleep like a dead man most of the time when the baby is not screaming at the top of her lungs at 3am. I could get up and do feedings, but I don't have the boobies. I have offered to feed the baby sometimes, but then when I wake up and offer my wife just says "don't worry about it". She doesn't let me help her.
I play with the kids all evening as soon as I get home from work and spend time with my wife in the living room/dinner until I put our oldest daughter down to bed. I give my older daughter baths and all that too, so I definitely do not just ignore her or the children. We go to the park, go on walks, have friends over from Church. I love my family and I love spending time with my family.
Secondly, I never say "GIVE ME MY RIGHTS" or any non-sense like that. I just try to touch her and be romantic or whatever. She recoils even when I touch her, just last night after I wrote this post she did it again.
The only response here that really makes much sense to me is that she is tired and doesn't want to have another child at this point, which I understand, trust me I do, I have to hear the screaming children too, just not when I'm at work getting micro-managed by my liar boss or having to work all through the weekend because of some failure at a client.
My wife used to be a feminist atheist who converted to the Catholic faith before we got married, this was about 3 years ago, I think she still harbors some of those man-hating tendencies sometimes. That's what I think is going on. I also hardly ever see her pray. I rarely see her read any holy books, she is always reading secular literature.
And yes, she does wear jeans and yoga pants, which really bothers me.