Follow an Advent calendar, use an Advent wreath, have everyone contribute a dish, an ornament, an anecdote. Make decorating a family activity; listen to Catholic Christmas music as you work. Read the account of Christ's birth from the gospel of St. Luke before you eat or before opening gifts. Invite someone who would otherwise be alone on Christmas. Visit a nursing home, rehab home, children's home with cards, small gifts. Sing carols if you can sing. Go for a drive and give food, a hot drink, a gift of a hat, scarf, gloves, or socks and a rosary to any street people you encounter. (If you have such a population in your area.) Ask the n.o. priest if there is anyone he knows of whom you could help.
If your husband or daughter aren't interested, privately celebrate with Our Lord, Mary and Joseph in prayer and meditation after your family obligations are fulfilled. Check out the FSSP Christmas Mass on imass. (It costs $1.99, well worthwhile.)
In my situation, family holiday gatherings are reduced to my elderly parents and I. I try to make it special with old Christmas shows on You Tube, music, a small tree to decorate, a homemade meal, etc. I may or may not get to Mass depending upon the schedule of their paid carer. There are relatives around, but lack of religion, indifference, and other priorities have severed family ties.
The world is a mess, but Our Infant King awaits. There's no reason not celebrate!