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Author Topic: What are some challenges you experienced as converts?  (Read 9638 times)

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Re: What are some challenges you experienced as converts?
« Reply #5 on: May 06, 2026, 07:54:38 AM »
This is a tough one for me because even if downloading it is a sin, is it still a sin to watch it on those free streaming site that you basically just don't know where they get it from? I struggle a lot to reason it out because it's a virtual thing. If people watch it on TV they don't need to pay extra, but then they do if they want to watch it somewhere else? ... :'(
Anyway at the end of the day I just tell myself if it's not worth paying for it's probably not worth my time watching.
Same, I am really not sure about this one, digital goods are completely abstract and confusing in general, just assumed torrenting a recent video game or movie without paying a dime.
As you said, what's certain is that you shouldn´t consume 95% of media slop in the first place lol.
But downloading a 20 year old movie instead of ordering a 2nd hand physical copy? Guess such stuff is the least of ones problems and one should just do something more worthwhile for recreation

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Re: What are some challenges you experienced as converts?
« Reply #6 on: May 06, 2026, 08:30:57 AM »
You just reminded me pirating copyrighted media is a sin (its stealing after all),
It's not, unless you are giving these copies to other people or making money off it. There is a lot of stuff I would never have 'consumed' if i didnt pirate it in the past.


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Re: What are some challenges you experienced as converts?
« Reply #7 on: May 06, 2026, 08:32:24 AM »
It's not, unless you are giving these copies to other people or making money off it. There is a lot of stuff I would never have 'consumed' if i didnt pirate it in the past.
I don't pirate stuff anymore but it's a grey area due to how it works.

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Re: What are some challenges you experienced as converts?
« Reply #8 on: May 06, 2026, 11:04:19 AM »
I think one struggle that comes in hand in hand with the whole trying to figure out things by ourselves, is that even if I have access to a traditional priest (whilst many of us don't), it's hard to ask for help. Basically, I don't know how to speak to a priest and I'm very shy. Deep in my heart I know that I'm lower than the priest so I feel very scared and unworthy to speak to the priest other than making confessions and so afraid of offending those holy men in any way. Not to mention that there's usually a whole queue of people with their family already waiting to speak with the priest. I think sometimes it got better when there was a chance to sit down and eat with the priest and he happened to sit nearby. I also don't know how the whole spiritual guidance thing is possible given that I don't get to go to Mass every week and sometimes even if I go I need run right after Mass. I remember when I finally asked my priest about that, he basically told me to do the basics and ask him any questions if I have them. I actually don't know what questions to ask. I guess that's the best I could get so far. 

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Re: What are some challenges you experienced as converts?
« Reply #9 on: May 06, 2026, 01:24:47 PM »
Put your questions in writing. Find a priest you respect and see if he’d be willing to exchange emails with you. Ask your questions one or two at a time, and don’t bombard the priest who, no doubt, already has a busy schedule.  
I did this for many years when I was first converted, and it was extremely helpful. God called him last year and I pray for his soul every day.