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Re: Unsure what to do
« Reply #105 on: June 15, 2025, 06:40:46 PM »
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  • Day and night. She basically talked to me the whole time and seemed very interested vs barely spoke to me and no interest.
    You could always try this approach ;)




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    Re: Unsure what to do
    « Reply #106 on: June 15, 2025, 06:55:51 PM »
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  • I've seen many cathinfo users point out that traditional Catholic girls are little different from secular ones in their mindset and how they deal with men.

    Let's see
    - friend zoning
    - misleading / false signals
    - feminism
    - disrespectful
    - not wanting to get married young (late teens)
    - thinking age gaps are bad
    - disobedience to father/husbands (really disobedience to God/order God has made)
    - 20/80 rule
    - career woman meme
    - wearing pants
    - accept/ignore a converts 'past'

    I thought these posts by the men on here were truthful but I was in denial about how bad it was until it happened to me myself. Trads are infact affected by the modern world and it's propaganda. Maybe there are a small percentage of trad girls who aren't like this but I am losing hope in my local community.

    What is the problem here? How do we fix the females?
    It's difficult to blame women when you put yourself in their shoes. They are subject to conflicting and contradictory messages and an almost visible Satanic enemy who wants to destroy their spirituality and happiness. No wonder they are a little guarded and stand-offish. Plus a woman is entitled to lead the best life she can.

    Women look for security and respect. That is a big warning to immature males who believe they are entitled to a relationship. Women owe men nothing, especially not kidults who want a squeeze.

    Be the best man you can be and understand that women are complex units like themselves. Plus women are often physically smaller and as such have to be on the look out for potential hostiles and predators.

    Just don't be a creep, make sure you're at the 100% mark personally (not immature and self centered) and try to be understanding. 

    Unfortunately, there are a lot of males who have not been raised to be successful in relationships due to woeful societal programming and sabotage.

    This is certainly not the fault of the average woman in the street. Try the 1% Elites. If you really want to impress women, perhaps be part of the solution (i.e. The Catholic State).


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    Re: Unsure what to do
    « Reply #107 on: June 15, 2025, 07:44:18 PM »
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  • It's difficult to blame women when you put yourself in their shoes. They are subject to conflicting and contradictory messages and an almost visible Satanic enemy who wants to destroy their spirituality and happiness. No wonder they are a little guarded and stand-offish. Plus a woman is entitled to lead the best life she can.

    Women look for security and respect. That is a big warning to immature males who believe they are entitled to a relationship. Women owe men nothing, especially not kidults who want a squeeze.

    Be the best man you can be and understand that women are complex units like themselves. Plus women are often physically smaller and as such have to be on the look out for potential hostiles and predators.

    Just don't be a creep, make sure you're at the 100% mark personally (not immature and self centered) and try to be understanding.

    Unfortunately, there are a lot of males who have not been raised to be successful in relationships due to woeful societal programming and sabotage.

    This is certainly not the fault of the average woman in the street. Try the 1% Elites. If you really want to impress women, perhaps be part of the solution (i.e. The Catholic State).
    So women are princesses? If women are wanting to get married in this anti-marriage state (where divorce and feminism is sky-high), they are not entitled to a man. A smart man is going to vet a woman even harder these days if he wants to get married. A man doesn't have time for games and princess behaviour. Don't blame men when you get to your 30s because you rejected all the ones that weren't up to your standards. 

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    Re: Unsure what to do
    « Reply #108 on: June 15, 2025, 08:08:00 PM »
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  • So women are princesses? If women are wanting to get married in this anti-marriage state (where divorce and feminism is sky-high), they are not entitled to a man. A smart man is going to vet a woman even harder these days if he wants to get married. A man doesn't have time for games and princess behaviour. Don't blame men when you get to your 30s because you rejected all the ones that weren't up to your standards.
    Your future spouse is not your Princess? The Bible says she is more than a Princess...

    Ephesians 5:25
    Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

    Have you not read the Song of Solomon? Or the Psalms?

    Psalm 45:13
    All glorious is the princess within her chamber; her gown is interwoven with gold.

    What type of woman do you want? If you want a cow girl, then fine... 


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    Re: Unsure what to do
    « Reply #109 on: June 15, 2025, 09:32:41 PM »
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  • Just don't be a creep, make sure you're at the 100% mark personally (not immature and self centered) and try to be understanding.
    :facepalm::facepalm: this post was definitely written by a woman as it contains no practical help.


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    Re: Unsure what to do
    « Reply #110 on: June 15, 2025, 09:39:00 PM »
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  • Your future spouse is not your Princess? The Bible says she is more than a Princess...

    Ephesians 5:25
    Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

    Have you not read the Song of Solomon? Or the Psalms?

    Psalm 45:13
    All glorious is the princess within her chamber; her gown is interwoven with gold.

    What type of woman do you want? If you want a cow girl, then fine...


    I'm not the other guy but I think I will provide a big post later when I get home. There is a lack of empathy for men in this thread. It takes a great deal for a man to go out of his way to talk and show interest in a woman, especially in today's climate.

    As for understanding women, it's difficult as woman never properly explain themselves. Always using vague words like 'creepy. You could just say ugly or bad hygiene or ungroomed. I can tell you i am not ugly, have good hygiene, and am well groomed. I have been reading books on men and womans behaviours and communications but it's not practical until I actually get a woman. It's not like I'm not trying to be a good man. Modern woman (including trads) really don't understand how they are supposed to communicate and treat males. That's why men complain about being led on or friend zoned etc.

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    Re: Unsure what to do
    « Reply #111 on: June 15, 2025, 11:12:47 PM »
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  • Your future spouse is not your Princess? The Bible says she is more than a Princess...

    Ephesians 5:25
    Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

    Have you not read the Song of Solomon? Or the Psalms?

    Psalm 45:13
    All glorious is the princess within her chamber; her gown is interwoven with gold.

    What type of woman do you want? If you want a cow girl, then fine...


    You sure wrote your post like an entitled princess. And love the cherry picking of verses. Have you not read the verses about nagging women? 

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    « Reply #112 on: June 15, 2025, 11:16:55 PM »
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  • I'm not the other guy but I think I will provide a big post later when I get home. There is a lack of empathy for men in this thread. It takes a great deal for a man to go out of his way to talk and show interest in a woman, especially in today's climate.

    As for understanding women, it's difficult as woman never properly explain themselves. Always using vague words like 'creepy. You could just say ugly or bad hygiene or ungroomed. I can tell you i am not ugly, have good hygiene, and am well groomed. I have been reading books on men and womans behaviours and communications but it's not practical until I actually get a woman. It's not like I'm not trying to be a good man. Modern woman (including trads) really don't understand how they are supposed to communicate and treat males. That's why men complain about being led on or friend zoned etc.
    Well these women will get to their 30s and 40s and complain where all the good men have gone. It’s their high standards and entitlement. We don’t see them working back-breaking jobs that leave their bodies destroyed for the rest of their life. Just look at how much attention Father’s Day has gotten vs Mother’s Day. 


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    Re: Unsure what to do
    « Reply #113 on: Yesterday at 12:13:22 AM »
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  • I think in general the expectations in a relationship - spiritual connection, companionship, security, happiness - are similar. What form these take will vary from person to person. A man is trying to find a soul mate. And that has to be reciprocated. A woman can see a man in a romantic and non-romantic context. And similarly the woman has to find her soul mate. For the single vocation that will be Our Lord. For a marriage, this requires hard work and taking reality checks.

    Ultimately, God and the Holy Spirit decides. Marriages that have not been blessed by Providence will be difficult indeed.



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    Re: Unsure what to do
    « Reply #114 on: Yesterday at 06:57:38 AM »
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  • I'm not the other guy but I think I will provide a big post later when I get home. There is a lack of empathy for men in this thread. It takes a great deal for a man to go out of his way to talk and show interest in a woman, especially in today's climate.

    As for understanding women, it's difficult as woman never properly explain themselves. Always using vague words like 'creepy. You could just say ugly or bad hygiene or ungroomed. I can tell you i am not ugly, have good hygiene, and am well groomed. I have been reading books on men and womans behaviours and communications but it's not practical until I actually get a woman. It's not like I'm not trying to be a good man. Modern woman (including trads) really don't understand how they are supposed to communicate and treat males. That's why men complain about being led on or friend zoned etc.
    Can you provide examples of the "lack of empathy for men" in this thread?  Because I got the impression that most of the posts were quite empathetic and encouraging to the OP. 

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    Re: Unsure what to do
    « Reply #115 on: Yesterday at 07:07:28 AM »
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  • Day and night. She basically talked to me the whole time and seemed very interested vs barely spoke to me and no interest.
    Women very much live in the now. It's part of their charm but makes it very difficult to explain to them why one should save money instead of succombing to instant material gratification. Advertisments are aimed specifically at women because advertisers understand this part of their nature. 

    You may find that the third time you speak with her, all will go very well. This will of course totally confuse you.