If women think you are too ugly it's because you are pursuing above of your level.  Try this instead:

-Downshift the looks of your female targets (go fatter, uglier, older, or dark skinned) or go for a lower economic class.  Always date beneath yourself and you will get a wife.

These are truly wise words.  I had to learn this the hard way.  Don't punch above your weight.  Have this tattooed on your forearm if you have to (jk).

I'd like to revise these comments a bit, and I am no longer able to modify.  While "dating beneath oneself" (and this refers to physical realities, not spiritual or intellectual ones) is always an option, and assures that you will have a wife who will appreciate you, be thankful for you, and not be out in the world looking to improve her lot, the best thing is probably to date and marry someone who is more or less your equal in terms of the physical realities.

I'm sorry, guys (and it is mostly guys here), I have always had a kind of soft spot in my heart for the ugly ducklings.  Guess I felt sorry for them.  I don't have it in my nature to look down on a woman because of what she looks like.  In retrospect, it's probably unfortunate that I didn't marry one.  I married a beautiful woman and my son inherited her looks.  Thankfully it wasn't the other way around

Yeah my point is many guys believe themselves to be much better looking than they are and feel entitled to have gorgeous women chasing them.  If women treat you like a leper it's because you aren't attractive to them.  Period end of story.  You have to set your sights lower.  
The complaining guy isn't talking about spiritual qualities in women so why should I?  He clearly feels entitled to a woman who is too good for him in looks and he is rejecting less beautiful but potentially holier ladies.  He thinks beauty = virtue.  A modernist belief.

I'd like to read a post from a man married to a woman he considers ugly who loves her for her virtues.  Is there one on this board?