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Thoughts on Married Couple Sharing Bed/Sleeping in Their Own Beds
« on: May 04, 2024, 02:30:42 PM »
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    • I see this with older couples where they sleep in separate rooms or sleep in their separate beds in the same room. Is it seen as neutral? Reason include because someone is snoring loudly or you just want your own space. My opinion is that a married couple should probably sleep in the same bed but I’m open to other opinions. 
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    « Reply #1 on: May 04, 2024, 02:45:31 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on May 04, 2024, 02:30:42 PM
    I see this with older couples where they sleep in separate rooms or sleep in their separate beds in the same room. Is it seen as neutral? Reason include because someone is snoring loudly or you just want your own space. My opinion is that a married couple should probably sleep in the same bed but I’m open to other opinions.
    I don't know, how much do you value sleep?   It's not an emotional decision but a practical one.
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    Re: Thoughts on Married Couple Sharing Bed/Sleeping in Their Own Beds
    « Reply #2 on: May 04, 2024, 04:05:25 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on May 04, 2024, 02:30:42 PM
    I see this with older couples where they sleep in separate rooms or sleep in their separate beds in the same room. Is it seen as neutral? Reason include because someone is snoring loudly or you just want your own space. My opinion is that a married couple should probably sleep in the same bed but I’m open to other opinions.
    What is your opinion about them sitting on separate chairs? :confused:

    Should you be in one of the funny sections, rather than in Anon?
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    Re: Thoughts on Married Couple Sharing Bed/Sleeping in Their Own Beds
    « Reply #3 on: May 04, 2024, 04:15:30 PM »
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    • Quote from: Nadir on May 04, 2024, 04:05:25 PM
    What is your opinion about them sitting on separate chairs? :confused:

    Should you be in one of the funny sections, rather than in Anon?
    What an overreaction. 
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    Re: Thoughts on Married Couple Sharing Bed/Sleeping in Their Own Beds
    « Reply #4 on: May 04, 2024, 04:52:34 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on May 04, 2024, 02:30:42 PM
    My opinion is that 

    How about leaving it up to the married couple. So long as the proper ends of marriage are met, our opinion doesn't matter. 
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    « Reply #5 on: May 04, 2024, 04:55:01 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on May 04, 2024, 04:15:30 PM
    What an overreaction.
    It was a joke!!!!!! :facepalm:
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    Re: Thoughts on Married Couple Sharing Bed/Sleeping in Their Own Beds
    « Reply #6 on: May 04, 2024, 10:59:51 PM »
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    • That’s the couples’ business.  
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    Re: Thoughts on Married Couple Sharing Bed/Sleeping in Their Own Beds
    « Reply #7 on: May 05, 2024, 09:54:30 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on May 04, 2024, 02:30:42 PM
    I see this with older couples where they sleep in separate rooms or sleep in their separate beds in the same room.
    The first question that comes to mind is how this topic even remotely meets the criteria Matthew set for the legitimate use of the anonymous forum?

    The second question is how the poster has become so familiar with other people's sleeting arrangements?
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    « Reply #8 on: May 05, 2024, 10:42:18 AM »
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    • Quote from: moneil on May 05, 2024, 09:54:30 AM
    The second question is how the poster has become so familiar with other people's sleeting arrangements?

    Spying, hidden cameras, hiding in the bushes.
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    Re: Thoughts on Married Couple Sharing Bed/Sleeping in Their Own Beds
    « Reply #9 on: May 05, 2024, 09:05:56 PM »
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    • Never interfere with anyone else's marriage. 
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    Re: Thoughts on Married Couple Sharing Bed/Sleeping in Their Own Beds
    « Reply #10 on: May 06, 2024, 11:13:59 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on May 04, 2024, 02:30:42 PM
    I see this with older couples where they sleep in separate rooms or sleep in their separate beds in the same room. Is it seen as neutral? Reason include because someone is snoring loudly or you just want your own space. My opinion is that a married couple should probably sleep in the same bed but I’m open to other opinions.
    Certainly, I would agree that that would be the ideal; however, there are situations when sleeping apart avoids sleep depravity and is a necessary "evil".  Don't assume a married couple that sleeps apart doesn't get together in the same bed at times. ;)  If you think about it logically and practically, getting a good night's sleep goes far in benefitting a marriage.
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    Re: Thoughts on Married Couple Sharing Bed/Sleeping in Their Own Beds
    « Reply #11 on: May 06, 2024, 12:22:30 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on May 06, 2024, 11:13:59 AM
    Certainly, I would agree that that would be the ideal; however, there are situations when sleeping apart avoids sleep depravity and is a necessary "evil".  Don't assume a married couple that sleeps apart doesn't get together in the same bed at times. ;)  If you think about it logically and practically, getting a good night's sleep goes far in benefitting a marriage.

    Indeed.  There can be scenarios, such as a newborn infant that cries a lot at night where the husband has to go to work the next morning and couldn't function at work while sleep-deprived.  I have an issue where if I'm awakened by anything after about 2 hours post falling asleep, I cannot get back to sleep again.  Or if, say, the husband snores, and the wife can't get any sleep.  Or one of the two tends to flop a lot in bed and keeps waking the other one up.  Or any similar practical considerations.  Sleeping arrangements have nothing to do with the marriage debt, and as you wrote, the sleep-deprived can get cranky and short-fused, which is not helpful to a marriage.
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    Re: Thoughts on Married Couple Sharing Bed/Sleeping in Their Own Beds
    « Reply #12 on: May 06, 2024, 01:47:12 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on May 06, 2024, 11:13:59 AM
    Certainly, I would agree that that would be the ideal; however, there are situations when sleeping apart avoids sleep depravity and is a necessary "evil".  Don't assume a married couple that sleeps apart doesn't get together in the same bed at times. ;)  If you think about it logically and practically, getting a good night's sleep goes far in benefitting a marriage.
    I assume that the marital debt doesn’t get met because they sleep apart based on experiences with family members. And they ended up getting a divorce or their marriage involves the woman ruling over it (feminism). 
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    « Reply #13 on: May 06, 2024, 01:55:31 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on May 06, 2024, 01:47:12 PM
    I assume that the marital debt doesn’t get met because they sleep apart based on experiences with family members. And they ended up getting a divorce or their marriage involves the woman ruling over it (feminism).
    I'm going to go out on a limb here and conclude you aren't married and are completely clueless how this works.  
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    Re: Thoughts on Married Couple Sharing Bed/Sleeping in Their Own Beds
    « Reply #14 on: May 06, 2024, 02:13:56 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on May 06, 2024, 01:55:31 PM
    I'm going to go out on a limb here and conclude you aren't married and are completely clueless how this works. 

    :laugh1:
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