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Thoughts on loneliness of men and the incels phenomena?
« on: May 05, 2018, 03:34:43 PM »
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  • What are opinions on the 'incel' phenomena and also more specifically the loneliness of most young modern men including what caused it? What caused this and for the situation where only 10% or 20% men are chosen?


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    Re: Thoughts on loneliness of men and the incels phenomena?
    « Reply #1 on: May 05, 2018, 03:51:55 PM »
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  • Because women are promiscuous, the top tier men end up with many women, with none left over for the "incels".


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    Re: Thoughts on loneliness of men and the incels phenomena?
    « Reply #2 on: May 05, 2018, 04:09:49 PM »
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  • It's the natural result of "sɛҳuąƖ liberation" and pick-up culture.

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    Re: Thoughts on loneliness of men and the incels phenomena?
    « Reply #3 on: May 05, 2018, 04:15:24 PM »
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  • Do not mistake loneliness for the incel phenomena. It has nothing to do with loneliness and everything to do with narcissism and hatred.

    I've been lonely before. I never fantasized, much less even thought, about "punishing" others who found their spouses and seemed happier than me. 

    There are also plenty of women who are not chosen. It is the height of hypocrisy for these men to hate and blame women for not choosing them when they themselves will not choose other women who might be less attractive or less desirable in all the worldly ways.

    Many perfectly nice girls are passed over every day or made to feel like they go unseen. The difficulty of finding a spouse in today's world and feeling lonely is not one-sided.

    Having made that point, I would still advise lonely girls to stay away from incels because once again their problem is narcissism and hatred, not loneliness. If an incel met his match and married it would not cure his ills, he'd just find another excuse and another way to express his murderous tendencies.  

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    Re: Thoughts on loneliness of men and the incels phenomena?
    « Reply #4 on: May 05, 2018, 05:28:45 PM »
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  • Having never heard of "incels" before, I looked up the term.  Interestingly, I found the definition in the Urban Dictionary.  If anyone here is as "un-hip" as I and doesn't know, "incel" is slang for "involuntarily celebate".  I won't post the entire Urban Dictionary definition but it's definition pretty much says the same thing as the above post telling us not to mistake lonliness for incel.  

    What is it about people today who seem to identify their very being with sex (or, in this case, the lack of it)?  Every unmarried person should be celebate anyway until they marry.  But it doesn't seem that these people are thinking along these lines.  Guys who are "lonely" should put down the video games, the hair gel and manicures, get off Facebook or the other "social media", and meet people.  If they have problems doing that in a world with 6 billion people in it, they need to look in the mirror and figure out what is wrong with them.


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    Re: Thoughts on loneliness of men and the incels phenomena?
    « Reply #5 on: May 05, 2018, 06:45:10 PM »
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  • Yes, I agree entirely with your post, TKGS. That the anonymous poster has to use such meaningless language in the first post does not say much for him. A good start would be to improve his communication skills.
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    Re: Thoughts on loneliness of men and the incels phenomena?
    « Reply #6 on: May 05, 2018, 07:00:52 PM »
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  • He is using slang terms popular on sites like godlikeproductions, as well as manosphere websites such as The Red Pill reddit forum. The Red Pill is about understanding the psychology of women, how to be attractive to women, but most of those on the site are into casual sex and hookups. They go over the line and treat women like objects. There is a lot of truth when they speak about the differences between the sexes, criticism of the modern world, American culture and whatnot, but a lot of chaff is mixed in. And a Catholic needs to beware of the language used throughout the site, and not click on many of the threads which are clearly prurient.

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    Re: Thoughts on loneliness of men and the incels phenomena?
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    Garbage from the City of Man. 


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    Re: Thoughts on loneliness of men and the incels phenomena?
    « Reply #8 on: May 05, 2018, 07:20:34 PM »
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  • Perhaps incels are just another incarnation of MGTOWs? 

    Neither think of or treat women with dignity and respect.  It shouldn't be about "getting" a woman, like you get a new car.  It's about being the kind of man that a good woman would be attracted to in the first place.

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    Re: Thoughts on loneliness of men and the incels phenomena?
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  • Perhaps incels are just another incarnation of MGTOWs?

    Neither think of or treat women with dignity and respect.  It shouldn't be about "getting" a woman, like you get a new car.  It's about being the kind of man that a good woman would be attracted to in the first place.
    Like having job skills and social skills.  A clean mind and a clean body.  Valuing family life rather than social life.