No this is ridiculous and is same thing women do.
A man with no options has it much harder than someone with a lot of options. It's like woman complaining they have too many matches to filter through and can't be bothered in putting in the effort. For the person with no attention they basically have no chance.
Also someone for everyone is Jєωιѕн disney nonsense. There is literally a surplus of 100 million men compared to woman (thanks india China etc).
Whether you think it is or not, it's difficult as an attractive man. There's a reason why I warn young men in my life women are perverts on average. It can be subtle sometimes, that's the jezebel demon. Dodging jezebels is second nature to me thanks to the Holy Ghost. Beyond that, I still have to consider:
Is she attractive
Is she pure
- Is she a help mate
- Is she ethnically the same
2026 is worse than 1526 so it takes so much narrowing down to find that woman, thank God we only need one. It doesn't matter I have all the options. Light attracts and it attracts bugs.
Women also have a tendency to self-sabotage
Take this example.
It really amazes me. This woman claims to have a Catholic upbringing yet is still clearly delusional about looking for a husband. Sure some of the comments she received were inappropriate but many are fine. It shocks me that a woman can be shocked that man only want to marry a virgin, and then use that as an excuse to sabotage themselves. Her parents sent her to university (as per her public post) so I can already see how her parents failed her.
I don't need to explain it, any person with intelligence can see it right away.
So a 30 yr old woman (a virgin so bonus points) still gets lots of options yet still can't find someone, this is not the same as having no options.
She's probably unattractive and feels that way. Again, I was with a woman who self sabotaged, she was pure. She couldn't contend with me in beauty so it fell apart. Obviously I overlooked that fact, and it wasn't enough for her. She has to be both beautiful and pure or it's going to naturally self destruct. If you're unattractive you likely won't get the addition of beauty but there are more Catholic spouses out there waiting for you. In other words, birds of a feather. Therefore it's more difficult but more rewarding as an attractive man.
I'm not "wasting my gifts", I'm not unappreciative, I'm not being too picky. I've done examinations of conscience for hours on finding a spouse.
I'm the guy personality wise who wants to get things done quickly and easily. That's why I was with the less attractive woman in the first place. I figured I could turn something out of nothing.
I'm forced to be picky because things simply don't work that way, you have to be on a similar level physically as well as spiritually. And with the mass malnourishment epidemic, girls starving themselves, even celebrities don't look good anymore. It's more difficult than ever to find a spiritually and physically appropriate spouse. The two go hand in hand, by the way. Secular people recommend therapy to become more attractive, what's on the inside manifests.