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The modern concept of maturity
« on: June 04, 2013, 03:56:40 PM »
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  • Can someone indicate some traditional sources that speak of necessary maturity (non-physical) for women who seek to marry?  Stating that immaturity of women was a general problem at marriage?  From a Catholic source?   Pre-20th Century?

    Any at all?




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    « Reply #1 on: June 04, 2013, 04:01:41 PM »
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  • I recall in graduate school there was an indian woman about my age, perhaps a bit older.  She would spend a large percent of the time using the phone in the grad office to speak to suitors.  She was a very intelligent woman, who was also very "immature" in conventional parlance.

    It was so funny to see her sometimes run down the hallway in her traditional garb because she was excited about going to a social event.

    This woman was clearly "immature" by American standards.

    Yet among Indian women 25-29 - much fewer than ten percent are unmarried.

    This contrasts to well over  40% for the US and over 70% for the UK.

    The "immaturity" argument is a feminist invention.


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    « Reply #2 on: June 04, 2013, 04:56:53 PM »
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  • Please define "mature."   :dancing-banana:

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    « Reply #3 on: June 04, 2013, 05:41:52 PM »
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  • It's pretty evident that no one is likely to find a source from Catholic tradition that says that youth and innocence in women means that they are (mentally) too immature for marriage.

    It's pretty clear that the idea of mental immaturity of young women is non-traditional.

    As Tiffany has mentioned, women who have been single professionals for a long time often find motherhood, keeping house and domesticity much harder than younger women.

    It shouldn't be surprising.  Younger people are often better at learning than those more set in their ways.  

    The difference today is that the wider society's priorities for what young people should learn, and who should teach them, are set by those who want birth rate well-below replacement.

    The birth rate is getting to the point where one baby is being born for two women in many places.

    Apparently Dan Brown's new book advocates massive population control.

    That his books have been promoted so heavily shows who is directing society and what their aims are.

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    The modern concept of maturity
    « Reply #4 on: June 04, 2013, 05:46:38 PM »
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    « Reply #5 on: June 05, 2013, 09:44:29 AM »
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  • Isn't virtue more important than "emotional maturity"?  Sounds like a bunch of Zio-crap invented by Freud.