I am not the one who accused anyone of being an Incel, but here’s an example from dear Matto.  He was a humble man, definitely not an Incel!  The reason I remember it was because at the time I didn’t know what the word meant.  By definition, again, he was clearly not an Incel (involuntarily celibate), as a Catholic man who is not married should be celibate!  But I post this to show that a man did claim that on here.  He said, “I am a kind of Incel”.
https://www.cathinfo.com/computers-and-technology/going-into-2019-will-cathinfo-offer-banned-souls-a-'week-of-mercy'/msg637806/#msg637806

Thank you.  For years I was paranoid that they would turn out beta without their father.  LOL.  Coming to tradition when they were very little probably is what saved them from that.  The daily rosary too.  I was also able to homeschool them because I didn't work outside the home very much.  I was blessed to be remote working long before it was fashionable.  One of my most recent mistakes was trying to start a family business.  After 3 weeks of non-paying customers I pulled the plug, realizing that a business model with the only customers being banks was a very poor choice.  I lost about $20,000 but was able to write it off on taxes.