I have relatives who are in their early 70's now. They are very much conformists and when Vatican II began to be implemented, well that was the law of the Church. And when laws of this country were altered ... or things like abortion were permitted, well that was the law of the land. They are incapable of questioning things or thinking outside the box. They avoid confrontation and introspection and do what they have to do to go along and get along. They were more strict in their expression of the Faith when they were raising their children. However, they changed with the times. Most of their children have fallen away from the Church and do not practice even basic Christianity. For example, relative "gave his daughter away" in her THIRD "wedding" ceremony a few years back. He refused to attend her FIRST wedding to a non Catholic at a garden wedding facility 25 years ago .... But now it's all different. Now it's all okay. I guess people follow because they don't want to be responsible. They don't want conflict and tension and bitterness. They want life to be easy. Funny how that really doesn't happen, because even at their very best efforts, they're still dealing with the repercussions of their children's "issues." I pray for their conversion every day.