When children or people are abused or hurt then the past is hard to forget.
Lots of them don't make it out alive past early adulthood.
There is a piece written by Amos Kamil for
New York Times Magazine titled,
"Prep-School Predators The Horace Mann School's Secret History of sɛҳuąƖ Abuse"
June 8, 2012
The author is writing 33 years after graduating from this elite school. His research and magazine article was sensitive, although worldly.
Read the comments, hundreds of them are surprisingly thoughtful and intelligent.