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Forgive them that know not what they do, but also don't assume you know their hearts. Do not judge lest you yourself be judged. The best thing is to make sure you are right, in all humility, and continue on. You should not worry about reputation or what people think of you, because God has taken count of all. Perhaps this is the lesson.

That's wrong.  People have a right to their good name, and one of the most pernicious tricks of feminists and liberals is to tell them to accept ruinous slanders because that's the "Christian" or "noble" thing to do.  It's pharisaic advice that is used to coddle feminine liars.

Forgiving wrongs is one thing: acquiescing to them under the pretext "it's part of life" when the people dishing out the wrongs are supposed to be Catholic is another.

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A great example of this self-destructive ѕυιcιdє of reputation happens when men publicly blame themselves for their wive's infidelity.  This happens in many "churches" nowadays.  It's very anglo-Protestant.  For example, the husband of Andrea Yates was an example.  A man tricked into blaming himself, and the women blamed him too, for his wife's child murder.

St. Thomas Aquinas said that the reason a man could put away his adulterous wife was to PROTECT HIS GOOD NAME.  Women know their most potent weapon against good men is to destroy their reputations.

Men aren't responsible for the crimes of women.  They aren't responsible for the lies of women and those who pander to them.  

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It's right,

No, it isn't.

as it is what Jesus taught in both word and deed. He conquered the pride of the world (including feminism) with humility, falsehood with truth, the powerful with his vulnerability, and sin with suffering and death.

Not in the sense you mean it.

You are well read and it is surprising you don't appreciate this.

I'm well read, which is why I know it's over-simplifying bunk.

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No, that is not a good example. If you are right, but be sure of it, then continue to be right and continue to defend your innocence until your last breath. The attacks in this life are but a fleeting memory so long as you persevere to the end. This is the path to sainthood, and your reward will be in heaven.

Sorry, but nearly everyone who has said to "let it go" "accept injustice" has been among those who have sided with the liars and slanderers.

Because they agree with them.  They tell me to accept it, not for the good of my soul, but to feel justified in their contempt.

The people who deny that I'm hated, saying it's just "disagreement."

Those people are deluding themselves.  

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Whenever a man ends up in trouble because of a woman's lies, he's told to "forgive."

But the people who do that seem to be extremely callous towards injustice towards men and willing to go to any lengths to coddle lying women.  It's some sort of feminist sickness they've imbibed, and it's pharisaical sanctimony.

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And I didn't know you had an adulterous wife.

Never claimed I did.  The point is that men who are wronged by women are told to blame themselves by pharisees.  Because it lets the pharisees off the hook, and flatters the women.

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No one is denying that you are right or justified,

More nonsense.  Just like denying that there are those who hate me.  You're just making stuff up.

because no one but God can ultimately determine this. But if you cannot accept contrary opinion to your own and defend it without you yourself accusing others of hatred (and your anger is easily mistaken for hatred), then for the good of your soul you should have another think about it.

No, the hatred is evident.

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Liars must retract their lies or they cannot be forgiven.  

Priests can't give you valid absolution if they tell you they can forgive you while at the same time telling you there is no need to publicly apologize for and retract lies about other people.

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I'm sure everyone appreciates how funny Tele is when he goes crazy ranting about his love life.

Like I said, it's hatred, taunts, etc.

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Matthew has let FE lurkers and now guests hijack the reputation system, and now this anonymous forum.  

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Fisheaters is a forum run by a public adulteress - a divorced woman who married a divorced man in a civil ceremony while publicly and unapologetically advertising it: where people who think they're "Trads" hang out.  It's a sick joke, full of fakes whose goal is to subvert the religion and to promote feminism.

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I'm fairly well convinced s2rea was the "guest" harassing me on this thread, denying that these so-called "trads" hated me.

His words are apologetic for their actions, and he has said in the past many of the same things they've said to smear me, out of their malice.

He's a latino, he says he never had trouble with women before he was married, but when asked to explain what he means by "success" - ie if he followed the morality of the religion with them he is silent.  

There's a reason these guys say disgusting things, like mentioning the cleaning of a toilet with bleach when speaking about marrying a woman who is no longer a virgin.  There's a reason these people get offended at men who want to marry young women or virginal women.  It's because of their depraved culture.  As spouse of jesus asks "Why are latinos so depraved"?

Why do those countries have such high murder rates? Why does Puerto Rico, an ostensibly Catholic country, have such a high rate of divorce and sterilisation?  Why do we see them defending lying as a practice?

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Have you ever noticed that it's "latinos" (like s2rea), mixed race people (like Raoul76), and liberals (like Clare) who always have a problem with strong, white, race-consious men?

Raoul is white.  He changed his tune on race because he's not very consistent.  Raoul's views tend to change depending on his precarious state of mind.

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Making observations about undesirable cultural traits is not "racial prejudice."

The idea that one must be a politically corrent anti-racist to be Catholic is completely false, but one promoted by liberals.

It's important to recognize that these "cultural Catholics" that see Catholicism as an ethnic badge cause serious difficulties for Catholic communities.

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If you were truly humble of heart you would not talk like this,

I'm justifiably annoyed with these people harassing me.  I point out the hatred expressed towards me, and I'm told "they just disagree" - that's ridiculous.

and you would win all of your arguments, because most of the time truth is on your side, but you are against yourself.

Being humble has nothing to do with winning or losing arguments.  The people who are against me because they are against my views.