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Author Topic: What’s the biggest age difference you’ve personally seen in a marriage?  (Read 4054 times)

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im sorry, you're just ensuring that this 15 year old turns into a 25-year-old divorced atheist

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so you want a grown man taking advantage of a child? people who had no place being in the seminary became priests and raped boys. it's the same thing, except someone's not a fag.
You quoted this LT posting of mine and responded with what you wrote above:

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From the trad young men I have been around now for 25 years, you would be hard pressed to find a 15-23 year old girl that would go out with a trad man of over 32, for they are all old men in bad shape and set in their ways.

How on earth do you come up with that response to what I wrote? Maybe you confused me with another poster? I said that no 15-23 year old girl would want to go out with a trad man over 32 since they are all old men in bad shape and set in their ways. 
BY the way, I also said:
 
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A man  today can marry a girl 15, only because the parents don't have a clue who their daughter is going out with. 

As for me:

1) No male is going to go out with my daughter without my wife or I chaperoning
2) No man is going out with my daughter unless they can provide for a family.
3) My daughter can't go out with anyone till she is 18.



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I know many young women who are quite mature. They've been cooking and cleaning, taking care of younger siblings, and taking general care of a household since they were 10 years old. They are proficient at any number of domestic skills such as sewing, knitting, spinning, etc.

These young ladies have grown up watching their mothers and have been allowed to flourish in their femininity in the protection of the cloistered home. Unlike young men who mature by going out to make their way in the world, young women, if left to flourish in their feminine nature in a good Catholic home, will mature as much as is needed to make a fine wife and mother, even before the age of 18. They have all the experience in life they need to be married at a young age. 

It's true that our culture today does not encourage this kind of upbringing, but good Catholics will always remain, no matter how small the number may be. Let's not let the times make us so cynical that we scorn what is good.


The last post was mine

By the way, 15 year old girls are going out with men in their late 20's all over the USA, and they are the ones pursuing the men in their 20's. Parents today do not know where their daughters are or who they are with, and that is the main reason the girls cab do it. They do it to show off to their friends and older girls. I came from the world and lived in it for 40+ years, before I came back to the Church, what I just said I saw all around me practically every day. 

We are traditionalist, and we should be different than the world. No traditionalist daughter should be allowed to go out by herself without a chaperone, or they will end up doing the same things as the girls in the world. Any parent that allows their daughters to go out by themselves is just asking for it. I've seen it over and over and over among trads.