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« Reply #15 on: November 12, 2021, 07:49:32 PM »
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  • There was a saint I can't recall her name, Bethada?  Betta  but what happened her husband and her had 2 daughters and the husband had adultery with many women, could careless about his family, Betta lived in the streets with her daughters, even Betta's family rejected her and snubbed her. Betta prayed very much and taught her daughters well in the Faith.  

    End result: Betta died and was buried at a nuns convent and Betta's husband came with his mistress to the convent looking for Betta. A nun was told go to this number and let him to Betta's grave.  He was so torn, that he left all of his wicked ways and became a monk/priest and gave Holy Eucharist to his daughter and the other daughter was a nun. 

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    Re: Examples of wicked husbands in scripture?
    « Reply #16 on: November 13, 2021, 12:12:25 AM »
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  • Check out St Rita. If I can, I will try to find something for you.

    There are many saints who suffer through bad husbands. I will pray for your situation to improve and that he may see what he is doing to you.
    St Rita was married to a man who was murdered and his two sons vowed to avenge him.

    St Rita prayed that God would take them before such a disaster. They were converted and they both died repentant.

    https://www.praymorenovenas.com/st-rita-novena-2



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    Re: Examples of wicked husbands in scripture?
    « Reply #17 on: November 13, 2021, 12:24:06 AM »
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  • Blessed Anna Maria Taigi: Housewife, Mother and Saint
    BRIAN KRANICK


    Imagine the saint who was a renown healer and a great mystic, who conversed with Jesus and Mary, and was supernaturally gifted by God for 47 years with a miraculous, luminous globe that stayed with her at all times, and in which, she could see nearly all things hidden, present, and in the future.  Was this an ascetic monk, or an angelic nun?  No, this was Blessed Anna Maria Taigi, an ordinary housewife and mother to seven children.  Bl. Anna Maria Taigi lived a saintly life as an ordinary layperson with worldly responsibilities, a spouse and children.  Bl. Anna Maria is a great reminder to us that the intimate life of the soul with God is not meant for just the religious and the consecrated, but for all people.
    Anna Maria was born on May 29, 1769 in Siena, Italy.  She did not have wealth or worldly means.  As a young woman she married Dominic Taigi, a pious man but with a rough temper.  One day while they were at St. Peter’s Basilica in Rome, Anna Maria was overcome with an inspiration to renounce her worldliness.  She had been given over to some vanities, such as clothing and jewelry, but now began a new life of self-renunciation.  Her strong interior illumination showed the state of her soul with the effects of sin and its misery before God.  With that, she embarked on a life of obedience, mortifications, submission, patience, humility and self-renunciation.


    Anna Maria found many opportunities to exercise her spiritual discipline of patience and charity towards her husband and children.  She considered marriage one of the greatest missions from Heaven.  For 49 years she submitted herself before her husband, keeping peace with him, assuaging his temper, and providing all things for her family.  She was the quintessential housewife.  She always fulfilled first her duties as wife and as mother, managing the daily activities of her home; cooking and cleaning, and rearing the children, including teaching them to pray.  She embraced a martyrdom of humility in submitting herself to all those around her.  This was her vocation of extraordinary holiness in the ordinariness of marriage and motherhood.
    Yet, even though Anna Maria imposed great penances and mortifications upon herself, she never demanded that from other people.  In fact, she tried all the more to serve those around her, especially her family, trying to make them happy and comfortable.  Despite her self-sacrifices, she showed great affability to everyone else, including a special compassion and charity for the poor and suffering.  She sought above all else to serve God through serving her family and others.


    She also devoted herself to the Church, especially to the Sacraments of Confession and Holy Communion, attending Mass daily.  She had a special devotion to our Blessed Mother, and to the Holy Trinity.  On December 26, 1808, she entered the Third Order of the Most Holy Trinity as a layperson.  She lived a sacramental life in the midst of the world.

    Once, she heard the interior voice of Jesus tell her, “The greatest merit consists in being in the midst of the world and yet holding the world under one’s feet.”  Jesus also told her, “Virtue consists above all in the mortification of one’s own will.”
    The Blessed Virgin spoke to her as well.  She told Anna Maria, “You must be devoted above all to doing His will and submitting your own constantly to his in the state of life to which it has pleased Him to call you; therein lies your special vocation.”  True virtue is surrendering our will for the love of God in all things.
    Jesus called Anna Maria to self-sacrifice and redemptive suffering, to be lived out in the midst of her marriage and motherhood.  It was in her ordinary life that she progressed in sanctity and holiness.  Blessed Anna Maria Taigi died June 9, 1837, with June 9th now her feast day.  Years later, her body was exhumed and found to be uncorrupted.  On May 30, 1920, Pope Benedict XV, beatified Anne Maria by declaring her “Blessed,” one-step from official canonization.  She is now the patron saint of housewives, mothers, and victims of verbal and spousal abuse.


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    Re: Examples of wicked husbands in scripture?
    « Reply #18 on: November 13, 2021, 07:09:41 AM »
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    If a woman is living under the oppression of a wicked husband, where can stories be found in scripture of what to do and how to handle the situation? 

    Or, how did the women Saints live and do God’s will when their husbands (who they are subject to) were impossible to work with on a daily basis? Especially when the husbands/fathers are perfectly fine with corrupting the children..


    You're more likely to find examples in Lives of the Saints -- Tradition -- than Scripture, for this particular topic.

    Scripture is not a be-all-and-end-all guide to life, like the protestants teach. We have Tradition as well.  And for many things, that is going to get you much more relevant advice, examples, and so on. Mostly because the volume of material is much greater. 
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    Re: Examples of wicked husbands in scripture?
    « Reply #19 on: November 13, 2021, 07:13:05 AM »
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  • If a woman is living under the oppression of a wicked husband, where can stories be found in scripture of what to do and how to handle the situation?

    Or, how did the women Saints live and do God’s will when their husbands (who they are subject to) were impossible to work with on a daily basis? Especially when the husbands/fathers are perfectly fine with corrupting the children..
    1 Corinthians 7:12-17

    [13] And if any woman hath a husband that believeth not, and he consent to dwell with her, let her not put away her husband. [14] For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the believing wife; and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the believing husband: otherwise your children should be unclean; but now they are holy. [15] But if the unbeliever depart, let him depart. For a brother or sister is not under servitude in such cases. But God hath called us in peace. [16] For how knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? Or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife? [17] But as the Lord hath distributed to every one, as God hath called every one, so let him walk: and so in all churches I teach. 


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    Re: Examples of wicked husbands in scripture?
    « Reply #20 on: November 13, 2021, 07:22:11 AM »
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  • If a woman is living under the oppression of a wicked husband, where can stories be found in scripture of what to do and how to handle the situation?

    Or, how did the women Saints live and do God’s will when their husbands (who they are subject to) were impossible to work with on a daily basis? Especially when the husbands/fathers are perfectly fine with corrupting the children..
    2 Peter 2:6-22

    [6] And reducing the cities of the Sodomites, and of the Gomorrhites, into ashes, condemned them to be overthrown, making them an example to those that should after act wickedly. [7] And delivered just Lot, oppressed by the injustice and lewd conversation of the wicked. [8] For in sight and hearing he was just: dwelling among them, who from day to day vexed the just soul with unjust works. [9] The Lord knoweth how to deliver the godly from temptation, but to reserve the unjust unto the day of judgment to be tormented. [10] And especially them who walk after the flesh in the lust of uncleanness, and despise government, audacious, self willed, they fear not to bring in sects, blaspheming.
    [11] Whereas angels who are greater in strength and power, bring not against themselves a railing judgment. [12] But these men, as irrational beasts, naturally tending to the snare and to destruction, blaspheming those things which they know not, shall perish in their corruption, [13] Receiving the reward of their injustice, counting for a pleasure the delights of a day: stains and spots, sporting themselves to excess, rioting in their feasts with you: [14] Having eyes full of adultery and of sin that ceaseth not: alluring unstable souls, having their heart exercised with covetousness, children of malediction: [15] Leaving the right way they have gone astray, having followed the way of Balaam of Bosor, who loved the wages of iniquity,
    [11] "A railing judgment": That is, they use no railing, nor cursing sentence; not even in their conflicts with the evil angels. See St. Jude, ver. 9.
    [13] "The delights of a day": that is, the short delights of this world, in which they place all their happiness.
    [16] But had a check of his madness, the dumb beast used to the yoke, which speaking with man's voice, forbade the folly of the prophet. [17] These are fountains without water, and clouds tossed with whirlwinds, to whom the mist of darkness is reserved. [18] For, speaking proud words of vanity, they allure by the desires of fleshly riotousness, those who for a little while escape, such as converse in error: [19] Promising them liberty, whereas they themselves are the slaves of corruption. For by whom a man is overcome, of the same also he is the slave. [20] For if, flying from the pollutions of the world, through the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, they be again entangled in them and overcome: their latter state is become unto them worse than the former.
    [21] For it had been better for them not to have known the way of justice, than after they have known it, to turn back from that holy commandment which was delivered to them. [22] For, that of the true proverb has happened to them: The dog is returned to his vomit: and, The sow that was washed, to her wallowing in the mire.


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    Re: Examples of wicked husbands in scripture?
    « Reply #21 on: November 13, 2021, 07:33:05 AM »
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  • If a woman is living under the oppression of a wicked husband, where can stories be found in scripture of what to do and how to handle the situation?

    Or, how did the women Saints live and do God’s will when their husbands (who they are subject to) were impossible to work with on a daily basis? Especially when the husbands/fathers are perfectly fine with corrupting the children..
    revelations 21:6-8
    6] And he said to me: It is done. I am Alpha and Omega; the beginning and the end. To him that thirsteth, I will give of the fountain of the water of life, freely. [7] He that shall overcome shall possess these things, and I will be his God; and he shall be my son. [8] But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, they shall have their portion in the pool burning with fire and brimstone, which is the second death. 

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    Re: Examples of wicked husbands in scripture?
    « Reply #22 on: November 13, 2021, 07:45:28 AM »
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  • If a woman is living under the oppression of a wicked husband, where can stories be found in scripture of what to do and how to handle the situation?

    Or, how did the women Saints live and do God’s will when their husbands (who they are subject to) were impossible to work with on a daily basis? Especially when the husbands/fathers are perfectly fine with corrupting the children..
    I found this interesting:
    https://www.focusonthefamily.com/family-qa/when-not-to-submit-to-your-husband/