In defense of the two individuals who posted "mean" posts, I was thinking some of those same thoughts myself AS I READ THE THREAD, IN ORDER.
VERY LITTLE INFORMATION WAS POSTED ORIGINALLY. We don't know this guy or his son. It could easily be one of those situations where the parents have all the ambition/maturity and the children (even over 30) are rather immature. That is a thing now. How are we supposed to automatically know that isn't the case?
Since this was posted anonymously, we don't even know who the mature one (parent) is in this situation. We knew almost nothing about the situation.
And no, you're not going to get "doxxed" by posting your specific trade. Give me a break! That was a bit paranoid, you gotta admit.
Allow me to demonstrate the absurdity:
"Did you say plumber? This is John, isn't it! John Snow from Kansas City, MO! You just screwed up, buddy. You'll be out of the SSPX chapel by next week, Mr. Unemployed Bum's father. We completely hate you now for some reason (being unemployed?) and we'll make sure you never work in this town again. C-ya!"
But seriously though, thank you for filling in many of the details.