people don't talk about this much: being victimized by evil, whether your own or others'. Example: you commit fornication, but realize you were just caught up in the moment, the heat of the moment, and you don't really love this person, as in: want to marry him/her. You are not the victim of your sin, and so is the other p;erson. You don't want to hurt the person's feelings but you know it will not work out. The other person may want to get married, so you have to say No, sory... and the person could get very hurt, then angry, even go into a rage and throw something (ala Hillary... but i digress). Or the other person does not care about you anymore than you thought you cared about him/her.. and so you are hurt even though you knew it wouldn't work out anyway... I mean, it is just a mess. And no, I am not speaking of myself.. I have been celibate for years and years. I am just using that as an example. The media would have you believe these aforementioned consequences of sin and no big deal. They lie. They are .. well, their whole business is built on lying.. Movies.. acting.. essnetially all lies, strictly speaking
so anyway, yeh, people do not seem to want to face the fact that there are horrendous consequences to sin EVEN IN THIS WORLD
but the next will be far, far worse, b/c if you end up in Hell, you have no hope.. you have lost God.. which means you have lost all the good that He gives us humans in this life (and the next...)