You may have been rejected by some, but I imagine that you have not tried all the traditionalist congregations out there.

She never said she tried, much less was rejected by, any religious congregations. I wish she'd clarify this detail.

Have you thought about maybe it's because of men being too unattractive themselves nowadays? Complete loss of masculinity and chivalry, speech with no manner and decency, and blame their vices on women. Just think about how appalling and it would be to say such things in front of ladies just 50 years ago.

I didn’t mean that’s the reason in all cases, or meant to offend. It was just an observation from what I have experienced. 

Agreed.  I'm getting the impression that she discerned it on her own.

She never said she tried, much less was rejected by, any religious congregations. I wish she'd clarify this detail.

You are correct. I read too much into the initial post.

Why is it that so many women are asɛҳuąƖ these days? Completely uninterested in sex, repulsed by it even, in any context, even in the context of marriage? 

Because men are not taught to be gentlemen. Women need to feel genuinely cared for. We know that's not the same for men. 

Sometimes I cry at night feeling sad that I was not able to join a religious order and serve Our Lord solely with all my life ...

You sure you don't have a religious vocation?  Did someone else "discern" this for you?

Speaking as another female.... NO. 

Do not marry if you do not feel drawn towards the vocation of motherhood. Including feeling absolutely nothing for your potential spouse.

Do not enter the religious life if you do not feel drawn. The religious vocation is not an escape and/or is not for everyone. You should have a VOCATION. If you do not, then you cannot force it. Same as marriage. 

I cannot imagine a greater misery than to be forced to choose between these two options, when God's plan may be something different. There is such a thing as living a single life. 

It is OK to remain unmarried. Let's say either because you don't want to marry... or you are still waiting for the right person.

It is OK to seek a job that provides stability long term + places you in the position where you can serve God in the way intended. Be that as a nurse, doctor, veterinarian, or some other position that is always needed and also places somewhere that you can be instrumental in helping people find the faith. 

If you are drawn to marriage, but lack affection or interest in your options.... then hold off. Pray. Either pray for a good man who you would be very happy marrying or pray for peace and comfort and strength and joy in whatever God intends. 

Learn to be quiet and observant of others. Train your eyes to be unemotional.

Personally speaking, I was 18 or 19 years old when a man in his 20's chased around after me and others. What I could see with my unemotional eyes was the fact that he did not have a particular interest in me. He wanted a wife and children and any willing female would do. And he was in a huge hurry. I was not drawn to the married life, nor did I want children of my own. As we speak currently I now somewhat have softened towards having my own children, but have also discovered that physically I probably would never get pregnant or have miscarriages if I did - so probably a very fortunate thing I never got married. Regardless, I was brutally honest with that person and learned to be very careful about being invisible or aloof since then to keep others away. :) 

There's somebody who I've met and really enjoy hanging out with. Talking somebody who main thing I can see about him is a natural kindness and just warm outgoing nature.... who is not weak, prideful, immature, or "in a hurry".... many things I dislike in young traditional catholic men. But unless I convert that person into coming to church with me and becoming Catholic because he has received the gift of faith, having a serious relationship with him is impossible. And in my case, there are additional complications (inability to have kids, etc) which absolutely mean I'm still maintaining distance to avoid any attachment there. I cannot tell what the future will be, but that's in God's hands. We are expected to be good people, live a good holy life, and leave the rest to God.

That's what I suggest that you focus on. No need to force yourself to do anything immediately. If there is no vocation for the religious life or the married life, see if there is a calling to do something else which could serve God a different way. And you never know what God has planned for you.  

Do not get married just to be married. That's horrible and unfair to the man. A lot of women can't go to the convent and the beguine option is one that should be revived.