No, you shouldn't force yourself. But also you should allow for the possibility that too much emphasis on feelings may be at play here. Those things come with time. Whatever you do, DON'T lead him on. While men can and sometimes do lie to themselves, women in general, with a few exceptions, are far more prone to this fault, not being entirely honest with themselves, which causes them to feel justified in leading men on, in making insincere commitments and not following through on their promises, as if "I changed my mind" or "I didnt really mean that when I said it" are legitimate excuses. So be honest with him in everything; but to do that, be honest with yourself. If you have a good, life-experienced priest, that would be a blessing. If not, seek counsel from those who know you best, not just those who will tell you what you want to hear.