Author Topic: Should a husband physically restrain a habitually runnaway wife? (Read 3896 times)

Änσnymσus · « **on:** June 19, 2016, 11:19:52 PM »

Should a husband physically restrain a wife who disobeys her husband by running away from home for hours at a time without his permission, placing herself in spiritual danger?

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #1 on:** June 20, 2016, 12:58:28 AM »

Let's just say you already have a big problem on your hands. Whatever you do now is going to be far from ideal.

For example, a man might ask his friends, "What should I do when my 15 year old son gets right up in my face and cusses me out? He's actually stronger than me."

Well, no matter what you do, it's going to be bad. The PROBLEM is not having taught your son to respect you when he was younger. Now whatever you do (ignore it, kick him out of the house, etc.) is going to be bad in some way. At this point, there's really not much you can DO the truly rectify things.

wallflower · « **Reply #2 on:** June 20, 2016, 05:13:54 AM »

No. That will only make the underlying problem worse and garner her a lot of sympathy, thus confirming her victim status and hardening her heart even more against the husband. Not to mention it's illegal.

Nadir · « **Reply #3 on:** June 20, 2016, 05:33:06 AM »

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Should a husband physically restrain a wife who disobeys her husband by running away from home for hours at a time without his permission, placing herself in spiritual danger?

Is your wife a prisoner in your home, that she needs to "run away"?
How do define "spiritual danger"?

More detail would be useful.

wallflower · « **Reply #4 on:** June 20, 2016, 09:11:12 AM »

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Should a husband physically restrain a wife who disobeys her husband by running away from home for hours at a time without his permission, placing herself in spiritual danger?

Is your wife a prisoner in your home, that she needs to "run away"?
How do define "spiritual danger"?

More detail would be useful.

I assumed the OP meant the wife has the mentality of going for hours for "me time", but good question. God only knows that it might literally be true.

Alexandria · « **Reply #5 on:** June 20, 2016, 11:08:38 AM »

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Should a husband physically restrain a wife who disobeys her husband by running away from home for hours at a time without his permission, placing herself in spiritual danger?

Not unless you want to wind up in prison.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #6 on:** June 20, 2016, 11:10:30 AM »

Do you mean to tie her to the chair with duct tape and lock her in the closet?

Nadir · « **Reply #7 on:** June 20, 2016, 05:30:03 PM »

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Quote from: Nadir
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Should a husband physically restrain a wife who disobeys her husband by running away from home for hours at a time without his permission, placing herself in spiritual danger?

Is your wife a prisoner in your home, that she needs to "run away"?
How do define "spiritual danger"?

More detail would be useful.

I assumed the OP meant the wife has the mentality of going for hours for "me time", but good question. God only knows that it might literally be true.

Wallflower, I thought along those lines too. But How Can we know what he means when he presents a problem in one single short sentence. Sometimes I wonder about those people who do that. I wonder if someone is sitting at home thinking up scenarios to present us with. Really you have to drag every detail out..

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #8 on:** June 20, 2016, 08:41:44 PM »

I do believe, it is understood, if there is restraining, that is over doing it and the police would see the husband as doing wrong. And then what would the result be? No touching in this manner or the husband could be seeing jail bars.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #9 on:** June 21, 2016, 10:32:48 AM »

I find it bizarre that op would consider physically restraining his wife and if that is the way his mind works maybe the wifes running away is doing the grocery shopping and maybe meeting a friend for some coffee after. There are some weird folk out there . I would like to know the wifes perspective on this.

to answer the op... NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #10 on:** June 21, 2016, 10:58:19 AM »

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I find it bizarre that op would consider physically restraining his wife and if that is the way his mind works maybe the wifes running away is doing the grocery shopping and maybe meeting a friend for some coffee after. There are some weird folk out there . I would like to know the wifes perspective on this.

to answer the op... NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO

Did a Muslim come on the forum? They'll beat their wives for showing collarbone, driving, choosing Coke over Pepsi, pretty much anything.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #11 on:** June 25, 2016, 04:36:32 AM »

But Seriously OP this has a malicious under tone. I would say anything short of your spouse attempting to harm you or herself would physical restraint be legally and morally permissible.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #12 on:** June 25, 2016, 07:22:18 PM »

My cousin's ex-husband tried locking her in the furnace room of the basement to prevent her from meeting her sister whose husband had insulted him at a barbecue. She broke the door through with a crowbar and had him arrested. That and secretly having a son with another woman are why he's her ex-husband.
I'd advise you not to try. Mr. X is immature and so is the op if he really thinks this is a reasonable solution to his marital problems.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #13 on:** July 04, 2016, 07:01:33 PM »

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Did a Muslim come on the forum? They'll beat their wives for showing collarbone, driving, choosing Coke over Pepsi, pretty much anything.

That's a gross overgeneralization. Muslims have the highest fertility rate of any group. Isn't that a sign their women haven't been infected with feminism as much as most non-Muslims and, unfortunately, many trad Catholic women?

JezusDeKoning · « **Reply #14 on:** July 04, 2016, 10:08:00 PM »

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Did a Muslim come on the forum? They'll beat their wives for showing collarbone, driving, choosing Coke over Pepsi, pretty much anything.
That's a gross overgeneralization. Muslims have the highest fertility rate of any group. Isn't that a sign their women haven't been infected with feminism as much as most non-Muslims and, unfortunately, many trad Catholic women?

Muslim women only have a high fertility rate because the Quran tells Muslim men that their wives are chattel, that they solely exist to give the man feed and children. This is why many young Muslim American women are married off and murdered if they refuse.

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