Sometimes people know people posting here, go to church with them, and they would just as soon not have those people knowing what they ask.
It can be a private thing - a need to know - so just bear with that possibility and be charitable! Either answer the question or please stay out of it.
Others reading can find the answer useful as well, without the complaining and distraction of the "unthinking," or the bold ones never afraid of to brag about using their names and "why is Anonymous needed" -!
Fine for them. Have mercy on those who must be cautious about seeking answers.
There are those who feel CI can be a brutal website - this doesn't help.