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Änσnymσus

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Selling ring behind spouses back
« on: February 02, 2024, 08:32:06 AM »
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    • Hi all,

    Just wondering if you think this is a sin.
    My engagement ring is worth quite a bit of money and I never wear it, haven't worn it in years and no longer fits. I would love some extra money to have.

    Do you think its a sin to sell it and not tell my husband?
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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #1 on: February 02, 2024, 08:37:52 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on February 02, 2024, 08:32:06 AM
    Hi all,

    Just wondering if you think this is a sin.
    My engagement ring is worth quite a bit of money and I never wear it, haven't worn it in years and no longer fits. I would love some extra money to have.

    Do you think its a sin to sell it and not tell my husband?
    Bruh :facepalm::facepalm::facepalm:
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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #2 on: February 02, 2024, 08:59:52 AM »
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    • Someone please tell me this is a troll. 
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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #3 on: February 02, 2024, 09:13:25 AM »
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    • You need to talk with your husband before doing anything.  
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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #4 on: February 02, 2024, 09:45:48 AM »
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    • How do you intend to sell it? I think talking to your husband would be right because I’m assuming he bought it for you.  What happens when he finds out that you sold the ring? 
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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #5 on: February 02, 2024, 10:03:36 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on February 02, 2024, 08:37:52 AM
    Bruh :facepalm::facepalm::facepalm:
    You'd be surprised how little you will get for your ring. Look at FB marketplace and craigslist and see what they are going for. You will get less from a broker.
    Plus an engagement should have a level of personal attachment. Maybe you would want to pass it on to your son or daughter....???
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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #6 on: February 02, 2024, 10:13:49 AM »
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    • I would NOT sell the ring without husbands approval, but I think some people here may misunderstand what you're saying.

    It sounds like she's trying to sell the Engagement Ring, not the Wedding Ring, as she refers to not telling a husband, not a fiancee.  So I'm assuming she's still wearing a wedding ring as the Engagement Ring is no longer worn due to now being Married.  So if it's just there collecting dust then either hand it down years down the road or talk to your husband about selling it.
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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #7 on: February 02, 2024, 10:44:11 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on February 02, 2024, 08:32:06 AM
    Hi all,

    Just wondering if you think this is a sin.
    My engagement ring is worth quite a bit of money and I never wear it, haven't worn it in years and no longer fits. I would love some extra money to have.

    Do you think its a sin to sell it and not tell my husband?
    Rabbi, is that you?
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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #8 on: February 02, 2024, 11:24:39 AM »
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    • Hi

    Me again, it's not my wedding but my engagement.

    I'm not a troll, I just thought it's gathering dust, and the money xoule be put to better use. I doubt the world will still be going in 20 years with how everything is.
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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #9 on: February 02, 2024, 11:36:34 AM »
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    • The big problem is taking an action behind your husband’s back.  It would be a sin to sell it with out talking to him first.  



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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #10 on: February 02, 2024, 11:37:41 AM »
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    • Do you do other sinful things behind his back?  Then why would sell a ring he gifted you?
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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #11 on: February 02, 2024, 11:51:56 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on February 02, 2024, 11:24:39 AM
    Hi

    Me again, it's not my wedding but my engagement.

    I'm not a troll, I just thought it's gathering dust, and the money xoule be put to better use. I doubt the world will still be going in 20 years with how everything is.
    What does "better use" look like to you?
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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #12 on: February 02, 2024, 11:53:39 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on February 02, 2024, 11:24:39 AM
    Hi

    Me again, it's not my wedding but my engagement.

    I'm not a troll, I just thought it's gathering dust, and the money xoule be put to better use. I doubt the world will still be going in 20 years with how everything is.

    To clarify, although I think most understood this:  You are now a married woman who wears her wedding ring but not her engagement ring.  Yes?

    Why would you not consult your husband about selling the ring?  
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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #13 on: February 02, 2024, 12:21:32 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on February 02, 2024, 08:32:06 AM
    Hi all,

    Just wondering if you think this is a sin.
    My engagement ring is worth quite a bit of money and I never wear it, haven't worn it in years and no longer fits. I would love some extra money to have.

    Do you think its a sin to sell it and not tell my husband?
    Selling the token that your husband gave you, as a sign that he was willing to commit to an exclusive life long relationship, without consulting him.
    What could possibly go wrong? :facepalm:
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    Re: Selling ring behind spouses back
    « Reply #14 on: February 02, 2024, 12:33:05 PM »
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    • I don't think it is a sin per se, since he gave it to you. If it is your personal item, you can do it as you like. This is how I understand it.

    The question is why would you do it behind his back, as you put it. Do you have a good reason for this?

    It might not me a sin, but it might be imprudent, since he might see this sell as a lack of affection on your part.
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