This makes no sense. Our Lord is either present or He is not. His strength is Strength Itself with no levels of gradation. Nothing personal, but you sound like a typical Novus Ordoite or a Protestant who mistakes feelings for faith. It is not possible to determine God's Presence by how you "sense" Him. My best guess, going on the only fact you provide, a novus ordo church, is that He is NOT present at all. I base my logic upon fact and dogma.
Get for yourself the a Baltimore Catechism with the Scriptures, explanations, and exercises. Do a self-guided course or find a tutor, maybe starting on this site. Pray the Traditional Rosary every day. If you don't have one or know it, get one and learn it. Study your faith. Stay home on Sunday and have a Holy Hour with a pre-VII missal.
Try to get in contact with a Traditional priest and Traditional Catholics. If that is not possible, rely upon Our Lord and Our Lady.
There may well be others in your n.o. church who are searching, interested in Tradition. Try to find them and team up. Again, if you find yourself alone, accept it as God's Will. He never abandons a soul who wants Him. Trying to figure out if He is present or how strong He is, is a sidetrack to a dead end.