Conclusion?
If you can go to Mass-not the one said by the prior-and leave as soon as it's over, same with confession or other sacraments, then do so. Skip the social hour. Avoid the prior.
If this isn't possible, and there are no other alternatives, then stay home alone. Do be aware, however, that if you have children who are used to the social aspects of a chapel, they may very likely abandon the faith when they leave to go out on their own. If you think there are slim pickings for suitable mates at a chapel of 200, there are none in your living room!
I don't know your specific situation. Pray for wisdom to choose wisely, because you can't go on sinning in your heart every time you hear your prior at Mass!