I went no contact with my mother the last 3 years of her life. This was after consulting with half a dozen priests. It was so hard because it FELT wrong. Yes she was toxic and manipulative but the separation was based on her being a New Ager (tarot, crystals, fortune tellers, etc). I sent her money the last year but there was no relationship left. I gave her eulogy when she passed away. Difficult and painful situation.