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Re: Question to young ladies
« Reply #15 on: Today at 03:50:09 PM »
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  • Am I the only one who thinks it's funny that no "young ladies" have posted yet? :laugh1:
    It’s not so much funny as obvious!  It reads like an interrogation or an incel in the making trying to justify his negative attitude after frustrating experiences. 

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    Re: Question to young ladies
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  • It’s not so much funny as obvious!  It reads like an interrogation or an incel in the making trying to justify his negative attitude after frustrating experiences.
    Haha yes it does sound like an angry man who has had bad experiences and isn’t feeling very positive about women in general.
    How does he define young? Under 25? Perhaps there are no very young ladies on this forum…?


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    Re: Question to young ladies
    « Reply #17 on: Today at 04:17:31 PM »
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  • Haha yes it does sound like an angry man who has had bad experiences and isn’t feeling very positive about women in general.
    How does he define young? Under 25? Perhaps there are no very young ladies on this forum…?
    If there are young single women on this forum, it’s unlikely they’re responding to this thread!

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    Re: Question to young ladies
    « Reply #18 on: Today at 04:27:37 PM »
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  • This thread is actually kinda funny.
    It's a matter of supply and demand.
     
    If you do a family history, you may be surprised to find a number of your female ancestors married younger men.  Further investigation will show they married around the time of a war when the older males were either away or killed....supply and demand.... and they still had long marriages.  The availability pool will also apply to religious affiliation today, among other things.
     
    Every time/generation in history changes that availability pool.
    Males and females both have their idea of the perfect mate, which is rarely found,(you'd be astonished to know how far apart males and females think) so you choose the best that's available to you and then work like hell to do the very best you can to achieve what you perceive is God's Will for you.
     
    When you've been married 60+ years and look back, you'll realize your life has been primarily the result of your own choosing so don't make every decision/reaction the hill you're willing to die on.
     
    Choose the best you can, sincerely do your best with what you've been given and pray you pass the test.



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    Re: Question to young ladies
    « Reply #19 on: Today at 04:33:20 PM »
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  • Am I the only one who thinks it's funny that no "young ladies" have posted yet? :laugh1:
    No because no young ladies are on cathinfo let alone the internet unrestricted.


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    Re: Question to young ladies
    « Reply #20 on: Today at 04:34:49 PM »
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  • It’s not so much funny as obvious!  It reads like an interrogation or an incel in the making trying to justify his negative attitude after frustrating experiences.
    Wow you really exposed yourself as a feminist. Men do not communicate like women do, it's strange you would make such a comment again someone asking questions.

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    Re: Question to young ladies
    « Reply #21 on: Today at 04:38:18 PM »
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  • No because no young ladies are on cathinfo let alone the internet unrestricted.
    By ‘young’ are you talking under 18? Because I don’t think over 18s have anyone restricting their internet use. If under 18 I don’t think talking to them about marriage is appropriate. They shouldn’t be thinking about it till 18.

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    Re: Question to young ladies
    « Reply #22 on: Today at 04:44:56 PM »
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  • Gals, don't look for a husband that's less than 7 years older than you.. Seriously, you are most likely asking for trouble.

    Undo the feminism from the your brainwashed heads.
    This guy is right. Once again we have an older lady who has supposedly been a Catholic all her life use the term "incel" as an attack. Chastity is a virtue but I guess attacking the guy asking genuine questions trying to understand some things from a woman's perspective is more important than answering in good faith.
    Haha yes it does sound like an angry man who has had bad experiences and isn’t feeling very positive about women in general.
    How does he define young? Under 25? Perhaps there are no very young ladies on this forum…?
    Blunt questions isn't a sign of anger it's just how men communicate, a sharing of information. Women often do not provide useful information unless asked specific questions because they do not have the same nature as men. Under 22 is young, 25 is old maid territory.
    This thread is actually kinda funny.
    It's a matter of supply and demand.
     
    If you do a family history, you may be surprised to find a number of your female ancestors married younger men.  Further investigation will show they married around the time of a war when the older males were either away or killed....supply and demand.... and they still had long marriages.  The availability pool will also apply to religious affiliation today, among other things.
     
    Every time/generation in history changes that availability pool.
    Males and females both have their idea of the perfect mate, which is rarely found,(you'd be astonished to know how far apart males and females think) so you choose the best that's available to you and then work like hell to do the very best you can to achieve what you perceive is God's Will for you.
    Sounds like pure BS. My parents and grandparents all had age gaps of 5+ years, more closer to 10 than 5. Maybe in protestant countries the age is smaller, but that isn't surprising as it was the Anglicans who first raised the marriage age for women, followed by protestants/masons, all by Jєωιѕн design, we can see the consequences today.


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    Re: Question to young ladies
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  • By ‘young’ are you talking under 18? Because I don’t think over 18s have anyone restricting their internet use. If under 18 I don’t think talking to them about marriage is appropriate. They shouldn’t be thinking about it till 18.
    I would think that well raised ladies at 18 don't have much internet usage. Your comment at not thinking about marriage until 18 is a sign of modern brainwashing. Ideally a woman should already be married around 17/18, certainly not looking to start getting married at 18... Why it so hard for people to understand that female fertility peaks from 17-22, waiting until 18 to START looking is foolish and not prudent.

    Before someone comments nonsense, getting married later to the right person is better than getting married earlier to the wrong person.

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    Re: Question to young ladies
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  • Alrighty young ladies, I have some questions for y'all. Anonymous so people can speak comfortably. 


    Alrighty young ladies, I have some questions for y'all. Anonymous so people can speak comfortably. Thank you so much! You’ve no idea how long I’ve been waiting to answer such a comfortable questionnaire from an eligible young man! 💋 


    Do you want to get married? Yes! Yes! Yes!
    Do you know you if you are called to the marriage life? Absolutely. I’ve known it from my mother’s womb. From all eternity!
    What age do you want to get married?  Just as soon as I turn 14, the earliest possible. 
    Do you think there are many marriageable men in your chapel? There are so many, but their parents, the priest, and the civil law won’t allow it. What is most sad is that none of them acknowledge my availability.
    What % of guys do you find attractive at your chapel? I find all men attractive. How can I not? I’m female!
    Do you like older or younger guys? I like all the guys, young, old, same age.
    What age gap is too large? Age gap doesn’t matter. I can wait for a man to grow up, or remarry soon after he dies. Or does it not matter if the man is to your liking? 
    https://youtube.com/shorts/aaoO_6fi5EY?si=mcORudA2-F7_Lh1n
    Do you expect to be a stay at home wife? I’ll stay wherever you stay, sugar! 
    Are you willing to live in poverty if it means marrying the person you like? Yes, we’ll live on L-❤️-V!!!
    Do you have a crush on someone? On you, my dear! 😘 
    How old were you when you first thought/desired to get married? From eternity!
    How old were you when you had a first crush? (I was about 6/7) Since I was just a twinkle in God’s eye!
    Are most guys at your chapel in good health? i.e not fat What does that matter? The more to love, no? 
    Do most guys at your chapels groom themselves? monobrows etc If a man isn’t groomed, I’ll groom him myself. Monobrows drive me wild. And so does hairless.
    Do you have high hopes of finding a suitable spouse? After posting this survey, yes!
    What conditions do you have/look for a spouse? Conditions? Nothing that ❤️ can’t overcome. 

    If there is anything else you want to add feel free to do so. https://youtube.com/shorts/nMhA4N9L9jE?si=ebVagOxPWGojpjXn



    Do you want to get married?
    Do you know you if you are called to the marriage life?
    What age do you want to get married?
    Do you think there are many marriageable men in your chapel?
    What % of guys do you find attractive at your chapel?
    Do you like older or younger guys?
    What age gap is too large? Or does it not matter if the man is to your liking?
    Do you expect to be a stay at home wife?
    Are you willing to live in poverty if it means marrying the person you like?
    Do you have a crush on someone?
    How old were you when you first thought/desired to get married?
    How old were you when you had a first crush? (I was about 6/7)
    Are most guys at your chapel in good health? i.e not fat
    Do most guys at your chapels groom themselves? monobrows etc
    Do you have high hopes of finding a suitable spouse?
    What conditions do you have/look for a spouse?

    If there is anything else you want to add feel free to do so.

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    Re: Question to young ladies
    « Reply #25 on: Today at 06:01:07 PM »
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  • No because no young ladies are on cathinfo let alone the internet unrestricted.
    :confused: "No", as in I'm not the only one who thinks it funny? Or are you trying to say that you do not think it's funny?

    Also, in what bubble do you live that you would think that there are no young ladies on the "internet unrestricted"? I happen to know that that is not true of CathInfo or the internet at large. Though, as others have questioned, knowing your definition of "young ladies" might make things a bit more clear.

    When's the last time that you went outside or talked to another person face to face, or read a physical book?


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    Re: Question to young ladies
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  • No because no young ladies are on cathinfo let alone the internet unrestricted.
    :confused: "No", as in I'm not the only one who thinks it funny? Or are you trying to say that you do not think it's funny?

    Also, in what bubble do you live that you would think that there are no young ladies on the "internet unrestricted"? I happen to know that that is not true of CathInfo or the internet at large. Though, as others have questioned, knowing your definition of "young ladies" might make things a bit more clear.

    When's the last time that you went outside or talked to another person face to face, or read a physical book?


    Or were you being sarcastic and weren't considerate enough to make that clear? 

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    Re: Question to young ladies
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  • I would think that well raised ladies at 18 don't have much internet usage. Your comment at not thinking about marriage until 18 is a sign of modern brainwashing. Ideally a woman should already be married around 17/18, certainly not looking to start getting married at 18... Why it so hard for people to understand that female fertility peaks from 17-22, waiting until 18 to START looking is foolish and not prudent.

    Before someone comments nonsense, getting married later to the right person is better than getting married earlier to the wrong person.
    I think marriage under 21 is pretty unwise… with exceptions of course. Under 18 is ridiculous.Not legal in my country. it happened years ago often to preserve family ties (aristocracy) or to counteract high infant mortality, peoples lifespan was in general shorter. I do realise you’re probably joking or deliberately posting rage bait (trying to wind people up as we say in UK) but just in case you’re serious I’ll reply seriously.

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    Re: Question to young ladies
    « Reply #28 on: Today at 06:39:45 PM »
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  • :confused: "No", as in I'm not the only one who thinks it funny? Or are you trying to say that you do not think it's funny?

    Also, in what bubble do you live that you would think that there are no young ladies on the "internet unrestricted"? I happen to know that that is not true of CathInfo or the internet at large. Though, as others have questioned, knowing your definition of "young ladies" might make things a bit more clear.

    When's the last time that you went outside or talked to another person face to face, or read a physical book?
    He can’t have got out much or he would realise most girls 16-18 are on the internet quite often. 

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    Re: Question to young ladies
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  • This guy is right. Once again we have an older lady who has supposedly been a Catholic all her life use the term "incel" as an attack.



    answer —I don’t think you’re an incel (was not me who said that). I don’t mind blunt in fact I like it. But you do give a vibe of being a bit dissatisfied with women in some way. The mono brow question was hilarious though!!—




    Chastity is a virtue but I guess attacking the guy asking genuine questions trying to understand some things from a woman's perspective is more important than answering in good faith.Blunt questions isn't a sign of anger it's just how men communicate, a sharing of information. Women often do not provide useful information unless asked specific questions because they do not have the same nature as men. Under 22 is young, 25 is old maid territory.



    Answer —25 is a perfect age to marry nowadays. Life was very different in the Middle Ages.




    Sounds like pure BS. My parents and grandparents all had age gaps of 5+ years, more closer to 10 than 5. Maybe in protestant countries the age is smaller, but that isn't surprising as it was the Anglicans who first raised the marriage age for women, followed by protestants/masons, all by Jєωιѕн design, we can see the consequences today.