I went through the Chicago public school system, graduating high school in 1993. I must say, legitimately and honestly, that the vast majority of my education came from home.
I had seen some of the results of private schooling, both secular and religious and must say that I was quite displeased with them.
Therefore, when my turn first came to educate my first child I put my foot down on public education: Absolutely no way no how! We looked into some of the “Catholic” schools and were also sorely disappointed, even before my wife discovered traditional Catholicism. That left homeschooling, and while nervous about it we went with it, and I have to say it was the best decision we made.
I am blessed that my wife is able to do this so well. And it is a bit on the spendy side.
Having said all that, and having been in the position before, I would have my family live in a cardboard tent before I give my children over to public education—and that was my attitude when I was a “never catholic” guy. This holds true even more so now.
There are just some things that cannot be compromised on: my children’s souls are one of those things.
Let me say in addition this: I will not berate another person for their choices, as I am not in their shoes. But I do strongly recommend taking the firmest possible stance and be willing to make whatever sacrifices it takes, to provide your children’s souls the proper education.