When a Jєω provides you with a mortgage, not only does the Jєω secure his investment with the collateral of the home (and homes tend to appreciate) AND charge you thousands in "closing fees" and sometimes even make you pay for "mortgage insurance" (generally if you have < 20% equity in the home), but they ALSO make inordinate amounts of money in excess of the home's value. If you take out a mortgage on a $250,000 home, you'd end up paying about $750,000 by the end of 30 years. That is gravely sinful usury. They should be making their salaries from the fees
So a non-usurous home "loan" would entail a few hundred dollars worth of closing costs and fees, a monthly servicing fee (probably no more than $50 per month, since it's nearly all electronic and automated), and a certain amount of mortgage insurance (probably no more than $200, depending on your credit "risk"), along with principle payments. If the home needed to be foreclosed upon, the home should be sold for market value, and the bank should have only as much stake in the property as would cover the amount of remaining principle, while the mortgagee would receive as much of the principal he paid into it, minus any fees/costs associated with the foreclosure itself.
Retired loan servicing employee weighing in. Thoughts:
Financial institutions make money hand over fist on service fees, in fact, it's a major "cash cow" for a loan servicer. It consists of a "spread" every month, for instance, if you have a loan on which you pay 5% interest, 4.75% gets passed through to the investor (e.g., FNMA), and the servicer retains 0.25% to pay the servicing employees and other expenses (data processing systems, etc.), as well as to generate profit. $50/month is in the ballpark, in fact, I figured it up one time and on the average loan, it's about $37.50 per month. So at least
that portion of one's mortgage payment is by no means usury.
Mortgage insurance (PMI) is assessed monthly, not as a lump sum. It works out to between $30-$70 per month. It's bundled into your monthly payment. Word to the wise, try to pay at least 20% down. PMI came into being to accommodate those who want to buy a home, but don't have the 20% down payment.
Owning your own home free and clear is one of the best assets you can have. True, on a $250K loan, over 30 years, you've paid about $750K. Thanks to my father's shrewd investments over the years (we weren't rich folks by any stretch of the imagination), my son will never have a house payment if he remains in the home we live in now. (My parents' house will come to me, also paid for, one reason I can live on a shoestring is because I have no house payment.) I've told him time and again that NO 18-year-old owns their own home. (It has to stay in my name for several reasons, but as a practical matter, it'll be his house.) Many people are one paycheck away from being out on the street.