That may be so.  

But budDude conveyed the feel of a misogynist, whether real or just acting.  There was a feeling of rage and violence. That is what I associate with misogyny. I don't sense anything like that from Main Anonymous Proponent (henceforth to be identified as MAP).  Don't you read them as very different?

MAP seems to me like a trad who, rather than being influenced by fiftiesism, looks back farther in history for his models of traditional Catholicism.  He is disgusted with the modern world but not ragey.

I agree that the new guy is more over the top, but I still see MAP (formerly known as cretin) as a misogynist as well; I've noticed enough in the tone of his posts, the language he used, etc. to detect obvious misogyny.

Tone is far more difficult to detect accurately in written media than in face to face encounters.  We lack input from body language and tone of voice.  We can probably tell when it is something extreme like buddude, but it is pretty hard when dealing with normal posters.

More difficult, but not impossible.

This thread is a car wreck.  I mean really, "beat your wife!"  Are you kidding?  No you aren't supposed to beat your wife up 

However, I doubt from many of the responses that many trads actually believe that a husband has a right to punish his wife, if she is disobedient.  May he scold her?  Is it ok if he isn't happy with her, when she is disobedient?  Is he just arrogant for thinking she should obey in the first place and is his real problem just that he doesn't respect and value her enough?  I just want to know, because honestly I think most men will just give up.  Some haven't, but I think you are asking far too much of most men.  I mean, have you not met people today?  Are all your friends amish or something?  Most men and women are just hanging on by a thread.  They have no idea how to be good husbands or wives.  They are utterly incompetent as people, let alone spouses.  Of course, our culture is producing idiots.  The divorce rate is over 50% for a reason.