More details on the distinction in Holy Scripture between the honour given to parents and that given to wives.
The honour due to parents is associated with obedience. Ephesians 6:1,2
1] Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is just. [2] Honour thy father and thy mother, which is the first commandment with a promise:The honour given to wives is described in 1 Peter 3:7
[7] Ye husbands, likewise dwelling with them according to knowledge, giving honour to the female as to the weaker vessel, and as to the co-heirs of the grace of life This is honour to one who is both a subordinate and a fellow Christian.
It is not even the same expression in the Greek. The first passsage has τίμα while the second has ἀπονέμοντες τιμήν.
It is obvious that these texts are talking about two very different sorts of relationships and it is absurd to conclude that a wife should be treated the same way as a parent.