This is ridiculous. You are blaming men for women's bad behaviour. Sometimes women hide their bad qualities while "on the catch" for a husband and he only finds out later. It is unfair to assume that it is the man's fault when things go wrong. Do you assume that women with bad husbands married for shallow reasons?
Your response is utterly absurd. I'm not blaming men for the women's behavior. I'm blaming men who make the wrong choices in selecting a wife in the first place for the trouble and headaches they get down the road. Yes, every once in a while a woman could be so good at hiding this kind of thing that the man has no idea. But in 99% of cases, the signs are there from the getgo, but the husband is too clouded with emotion and attraction to notice, or else he minimizes them.
And, yes, many women who marry bad husbands also knew what they were like before they married them. I've had married women ADMIT this to me, that they married a husband because he was attractive and good-looking and then later regretted it. In fact, woman tend to be attracted to the "bad boy" type and then marvel when the bad boy treats them like dirt. Often the women delude themselves into thinking that they can "change" them with their "love".
I don't know what rock you've been living under, but this behavior pattern is very common. Both men and women do it all the time.
I marry a woman who's disrespectful and uppity and "independent" ... and then afterwards I realize that I need to beat her to keep her in submission? I made my own bed, and now I have to lay in it.
Topic: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife (Read 183870 times)