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Offline Nadir

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Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
« Reply #180 on: October 25, 2017, 06:33:22 PM »
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  • I'm starting to suspect that Jaynek's husband is posting with her account.
    And whose account are you posting under, nameless? 
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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #181 on: October 25, 2017, 06:34:03 PM »
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  • Given that the Church recognized that a husband has a right to use corporal punishment on his wife (and I think there is overwhelming evidence for this) we can then consider what are the limits on that right.

    But they are two separate questions:  Does the right exist, in principle?  What is the proper way to implement it?  We need to determine the answer to the first question first before we can answer the second.

    The fact that there are cases of excessive use of force against wives tells us nothing about what the Church teaches about the husband's authority.
    What you are writing here, dear, could very well subject the Resistance and the Catholic Church to civil penalties and closure by the government.

    Perhaps what you are saying is true, that in certain theology books, this stuff was written, but it is not in the Holy Scripture. Perhaps these books should be burned because they really do not teach what the Catholic Church was taught by Christ to His Apostles.


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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #182 on: October 25, 2017, 06:34:20 PM »
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  • The term moderate is up for grabs.
    What is moderate to one man (40 lashes of a whip) can kill.
    A man is much stronger than his wife and can inflict mortal wounds especially if the woman screams in pain.
    Sometimes even the primate screams can arose an animal instinct in a psychopath and encourage him to kill his prey.
    One shudders to think what one such as you would offer as immoderate. 

    "What if the woman was raped!!??"

    Since when does the Church teach resort to the standard of one, unspecified, person?

    While you're at it, where does the Church commend, or even approve of, scare tactics in this area?

    TL; DR:

    1. The term, to be properly be called such, is not "up for grabs", for in general application, particularly in the field of Scholastic Philosophy >>> Sacred Theology, a term "itself" is a boundary or limit, as in "terminal", "terminus", "determination" or "terminate", for just some examples.
    2. The primary appeal to extremes is the mark of an immoderate, liberal, and unreasonable "man", with reason being very well treated of first off and very exactingly in the aforementioned Scholastic Philosophy. 

    This is where, predictably, we lather, rinse and repeat with the term "un/reasonable".

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #183 on: October 25, 2017, 06:35:44 PM »
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  • Given that the Church recognized that a husband has a right to use corporal punishment on his wife (and I think there is overwhelming evidence for this) we can then consider what are the limits on that right.

    But they are two separate questions:  Does the right exist, in principle?  What is the proper way to implement it?  We need to determine the answer to the first question first before we can answer the second.

    The fact that there are cases of excessive use of force against wives tells us nothing about what the Church teaches about the husband's authority.
    ... and where there is excess...

    A case of exceptions proving rules.

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #184 on: October 25, 2017, 06:41:30 PM »
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  • What you are writing here, dear, could very well subject the Resistance and the Catholic Church to civil penalties and closure by the government.

    Perhaps what you are saying is true, that in certain theology books, this stuff was written, but it is not in the Holy Scripture. Perhaps these books should be burned because they really do not teach what the Catholic Church was taught by Christ to His Apostles.
    Liberal, and possibly non-Catholic, advisory in effect.

    See, "can" v "should", "the lesser of two evils" "tolerance of error" and "bad consequences fallacy" for just some more moderate takes on these sorts of things.
    However it could be even worse than this person says for, who knows, they might even start burning Rome and blame it on us and then feed us to lions, at least those of us that don't receive free, field expedient, height reduction surgery.


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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #185 on: October 25, 2017, 06:48:53 PM »
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  • What you are writing here, dear, could very well subject the Resistance and the Catholic Church to civil penalties and closure by the government.

    Perhaps what you are saying is true, that in certain theology books, this stuff was written, but it is not in the Holy Scripture. Perhaps these books should be burned because they really do not teach what the Catholic Church was taught by Christ to His Apostles.
    Historically, both Church and civil law allowed for a husband to chastise his wife. It is a matter of historical fact.  I have specifically mentioned that I think it is imprudent and illegal to do such things now.  
    But just what is the standard for determining Church teaching here.  When I quote Church fathers, it is dismissed as "proof versing".  When I cite a moral theology manual, somehow that is not really what Christ taught.  Just what evidence would people accept?  

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    « Reply #186 on: October 25, 2017, 07:00:32 PM »
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  • Just what evidence would people accept?  
    Whatever shows that you're wrong, and they aren't?

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    « Reply #187 on: October 25, 2017, 07:25:21 PM »
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  • Historically, both Church and civil law allowed for a husband to chastise his wife. It is a matter of historical fact.  I have specifically mentioned that I think it is imprudent and illegal to do such things now.  
    But just what is the standard for determining Church teaching here.  When I quote Church fathers, it is dismissed as "proof versing".  When I cite a moral theology manual, somehow that is not really what Christ taught.  Just what evidence would people accept?  
    It is obvious, dear one in Christ, that you have an unfortunate agenda -- to teach corporal punishment -- rather than to teach the love of Christ.


    Christ came to institute a new commandment: To love God, to love one's neighbor as oneself, and most incredible of all, to love one's enemy. This new commandment not only went against the eye-for-an-eye teachings that preceded Christ, but also went against the paganistic Roman teachings that men had the power of life and death over their families. St. Paul even commented on this in his epistles. Yes, men had power over their families, but the Gospel now compels men to teach by love and by good example. For example, men can meat, even that meat which is offered to idols, but if doing so causes another man to stumble, then it is wrong and a sin to do so because of the scandal involved.  If you wish to be beaten by your husband, that is your right, do it in secret, not in the sight of your children.  However, preaching spousal corporal punishment in the open is not a good idea at all.


    Think what harm can be done if some stupid young man filled with passions and narcissism follows your lead? Think about the consequences if his attorneys lay the blame on CathInfo when it is your own indiscretion that might even cause a murder to occur. Did Christ preach spousal beatings? No.


    I am not going to download boiler plate proof texts as does Freedom, but I am urging you to read prayerfully the New Testament using the method called lectio divina. Cease this false and dangerous academic study trying to prove your agenda that corporal punishment of wives is permissible and good.


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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #188 on: October 25, 2017, 07:26:51 PM »
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  • correction: men can eat meat

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #189 on: October 25, 2017, 07:32:24 PM »
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  • It is obvious, dear one in Christ, that you have an unfortunate agenda -- to teach corporal punishment -- rather than to teach the love of Christ.


    Christ came to institute a new commandment: To love God, to love one's neighbor as oneself, and most incredible of all, to love one's enemy. This new commandment not only went against the eye-for-an-eye teachings that preceded Christ, but also went against the paganistic Roman teachings that men had the power of life and death over their families. St. Paul even commented on this in his epistles. Yes, men had power over their families, but the Gospel now compels men to teach by love and by good example. For example, men can meat, even that meat which is offered to idols, but if doing so causes another man to stumble, then it is wrong and a sin to do so because of the scandal involved.  If you wish to be beaten by your husband, that is your right, do it in secret, not in the sight of your children.  However, preaching spousal corporal punishment in the open is not a good idea at all.


    Think what harm can be done if some stupid young man filled with passions and narcissism follows your lead? Think about the consequences if his attorneys lay the blame on CathInfo when it is your own indiscretion that might even cause a murder to occur. Did Christ preach spousal beatings? No.


    I am not going to download boiler plate proof texts as does Freedom, but I am urging you to read prayerfully the New Testament using the method called lectio divina. Cease this false and dangerous academic study trying to prove your agenda that corporal punishment of wives is permissible and good.
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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #190 on: October 25, 2017, 07:44:40 PM »
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  • It is obvious, dear one in Christ, that you have an unfortunate agenda -- to teach corporal punishment -- rather than to teach the love of Christ.
    I have not advised anyone to use corporal punishment. I have explicitly said that it is not practical in our current circuмstances.  I was just irritated by all the logical fallacies and emotionalism in this thread.  I don't have an agenda, but I wish that people would think more clearly.  Vague mushy talk about love is a big part of the problem.


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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #191 on: October 25, 2017, 07:55:52 PM »
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  • Sorry, I've run out of my supply of upthumbs, Jayne.

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    Note, also, how the anonymous posters tend to intemperance and their "charity" just oozes.
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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #192 on: October 25, 2017, 08:50:34 PM »
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  • I have not advised anyone to use corporal punishment. I have explicitly said that it is not practical in our current circuмstances.  I was just irritated by all the logical fallacies and emotionalism in this thread.  I don't have an agenda, but I wish that people would think more clearly.  Vague mushy talk about love is a big part of the problem.
    Vague, mushy, false, implicitly dichotomous and anonymous "talk"; ashamed of the gospel are we, oh haloed one?

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #193 on: October 25, 2017, 08:54:50 PM »
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  • Sorry, I've run out of my supply of upthumbs, Jayne.

    Note, also, how the anonymous posters tend to intemperance and their "charity" just oozes.
    Yeah, you gotta "love" the "Holy Banjo of Benevolence", it's almost as "charitable" as...

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #194 on: October 25, 2017, 08:58:15 PM »
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  • I have not advised anyone to use corporal punishment. I have explicitly said that it is not practical in our current circuмstances.  I was just irritated by all the logical fallacies and emotionalism in this thread.  I don't have an agenda, but I wish that people would think more clearly.  Vague mushy talk about love is a big part of the problem.
    Ma'am, what have you done or said that was wrong? 

    What that person wrote could be cited against via numerous sources, but what would be the point? 

    "Lectio, or reason." 

    Nonsense.