Whether or not this may or may not be permitted under some circuмstances, and in strict justice -- the consensus is that it is -- my general observation is that the men who vocally advocate their rights in this regard are in fact insecure in their manhood, often because they struggle with being dominated by women via their own tendency to impurity. True men needn't resort to corporal punishment but can lead their wives otherwise. And, for all practical purposes, in all prudence, it would be sinful to practice it in this day and age ... since it would undoubtedly result in the ruination of the family and very likely some jail time for the husband (along with the accompanying loss of employment). Rarely is the man's motivation love of the woman and the desire to correct and improve her, but it's either cruelty, loss of temper, or a need to beat one's chest in order to feel like a man. So if you want to go around fantasizing about beating women in order to make yourself feel more like a man, go ahead. But unless you have a wife who wants to be treated this way, it would be sinful for reasons of prudence and, also, most likely, charity, to engage in this behavior.
It's usually those who are the least manly who feel the need to put their manliness on display and exert themselves in this manner. Sorry, but that's the truth.