Elaborate if you could.
I'm a man and feel no desire outside of generation. I could wait 100 years if authorized by God and we lived to 900.
I think you are unique. Most men, like another poster said, could, if given a "yes."
Another thought of mine (I don't know if anyone would agree with me) is that the act is just an emotional response. It is controlled by emotion. If you are in control of your emotions, then it shouldn't be a problem.
If you are in love, and you have been dating for awhile, these emotions get more intense for both sexes. It is the intensity of the feelings that make the person do stuff they shouldn't. That is why courtship should be short. I am not sure this helped.