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The use of the words “breaking their hymen” is unnecessarily crude. Yes, I repeated it because it needed to be specified. It’s in poor taste, just as it would have have been had I used the anatomical words for a man’s private parts.
This is a public forum. Anyone can join. Surely you don’t use such words over coffee and donuts after Mass or in any other public place where there may be women, children, and men for that matter.  Would you say this in the hearing of a priest outside of the confessional? 
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Yes and gladly. Never unprompted. Once the truth has room to grow it must come out. 

In a tender tone I say "seal." The seal in which God gave his more tender creations. However we are on text and an ambiguous term may still be deemed disgusting with having the added effect of ambiguousness. When I say the word, I do not have any mental pictures. If you have, that is not my intention. If my doctor told me something very important about my p word I am not going to stop his briefing to cry a moment. You are raising your fingers to tell the waiter your husband's steak is too salty.

On what you said, yes, it is mortal sin without a doubt. It is also a permanent life decision which makes it harder to bond with anyone new, impossible in the same way as the first. Makes you irritable, forgetful, cry, and start throwing your life against the wall in hopes something sticks. Hence the corporate ladder for some sense of stability. Her God given stabilizer is gone and now the race car hits the wall at 200mph. All before 14! To think my own family had stake in propagating this. I see the effects and I feel personal obligation to undo the damage. 

Do you have sons?  Have you experienced their persistence?  Any women knows what I am talking about.  Men break down women with their neediness and not dropping it.  Especially, a women who loves them.  Maybe you yourself haven't done that, but many men do.  Not just for fornication but everything they really want from the one they love.  No doesn't mean try again later.

It takes two. I understand what you're saying greatly. I've always thought it disgusting when men would do that. Mostly because the girls aren't pure! The girls they target are "virgin" biologically, but never pure. You understand? This is what I've witnessed.

Young girls feel disillusioned and it's easy to see why. You can fill in the blanks from there. This is why we strengthen father figures.

It always takes a willing act of impurity somewhere down the line, even in the rare case it is only mental, for that to occur.