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« Reply #15 on: November 08, 2018, 12:02:39 PM »
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  • That would explain it.

    Sending children to public schools nowadays is simply not an option for Catholic parents, or any sane person, really.

    Homeschool your children no matter what sacrifice you must do. Your daughter's soul will be corrupted if you don't. Pull her out of those Cultural Marxist indoctrination machines.

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    I agree completely since most books are published according to California laws where immorality is the norm, and virtue is criticized and mocked. In addition, children in kindergarten are taught to masturbate by planned parenthood trained teachers.

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    « Reply #16 on: November 08, 2018, 12:07:20 PM »
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  • Likely it's too late, or at least the family will have holy hell to pay, the daughter will see to that.
    It is not too late, she is only 12. I think there is a much greater chance that the child would change her way of thinking, than that the parents will change their ways to teach her. It can be done in both cases.


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    « Reply #17 on: November 08, 2018, 12:11:39 PM »
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  • It is not too late, she is only 12. I think there is a much greater chance that the child would change her way of thinking, than that the parents will change their ways to teach her. It can be done in both cases.
    I hope you're right, but I highly doubt it. The damage that's been done cannot be undone except by much prayer and penance on the part of the 12 year old. But first she has to want to change, which is very unlikely, especially for an indoctrinated 12 year old.  

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    « Reply #18 on: November 08, 2018, 12:16:38 PM »
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  • We go to Mass every Sunday.  She does go to public school but attends Religious Ed classes.  She isn't on social media but does have internet access.  
    How do I say this politely?
    Not good enough.
    Attending a Novus Ordo or Tridentine Mass for 1 hour per week is NOT enough to wash out all the poison she drinks in from the world 10 hours a day.

    Public school is death for your child's soul. You ignored this common advice from Traditional Catholics, and now you and your daughter are in deep trouble, facing serious consequences both in time and in eternity.
    Better for your child to be uneducated than to go to public school. That isn't hyperbole or an exaggeration.

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    « Reply #19 on: November 08, 2018, 12:16:54 PM »
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  • I hope you're right, but I highly doubt it. The damage that's been done cannot be undone except by much prayer and penance on the part of the 12 year old. But first she has to want to change, which is very unlikely, especially for an indoctrinated 12 year old.  
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    While these things are true (i.e. prayer, wanting to change), it doesn't follow from the need of those things that it's "too late."  That's terrible advice.  Tell the parent that it's too late to save the kid and they'll just keep them in public school, all but ensuring their kid's demise. 
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    What natural hope remains is in removing the kid from the problem, which is the godless environment that's introduced, legitimized, and reinforced the ideas the girl has picked up.  Children are malleable.  Less so as they get older, but still malleable.


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    « Reply #20 on: November 08, 2018, 12:17:27 PM »
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  • Turn off your damned TV; take away her I-phone and delete her social media accounts (she's only 12, she really has nothing invested in them, but if her identity is based off of those accounts, then removing the accounts will help find her true identity); and pull her out of the damned public or private school. Homeschool your children.

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    Re: Preteen thinks she's pansexual
    « Reply #21 on: November 08, 2018, 12:19:22 PM »
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  • Turn off your damned TV; take away her I-phone and delete her social media accounts (she's only 12, she really has nothing invested into them, but if her "identity" is based off of those accounts, then removing the accounts will help her find her true identity); and pull her out of the damned public or private school. Homeschool your children.

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    Re: Preteen thinks she's pansexual
    « Reply #22 on: November 08, 2018, 12:31:40 PM »
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  • OP,
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    Do everything you can to get your girl out of that school.  She's not just being exposed to those ideas, but that environment is responsible for encouraging, enabling, and empowering her "pansexualism."  
    While this is good advice in one respect, you could also end up having your daughter taken from you if you do this.  In many places not being supportive of a child's "gender identity" is treated as child abuse.  It is seen as justification for  removing the child from the "abusive" parents.

    If you decide to homeschool, you cannot say or do anything to suggest that it has anything to do with your concerns about this "pansexualism".  Even talking to your daughter in a way that discourages this behaviour is putting you at risk of being charged with abuse.  While she is probably just going through a phase and does not actually have an attachment to sin at this point, these situations have been politicized by activists who use them to force their views on others.  You are at risk of "being made an example of" by these sorts of people.

    In your situation I would seriously consider moving.  Register in a school in the new location but then start homeschooling after the paperwork is done.
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    « Reply #23 on: November 08, 2018, 01:26:18 PM »
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  • My 12 year old daughter just confessed to me that she's attracted to girls but thinks she is pansexual.  
    I had to look up the word pansexual. It means she is a lesbian that also goes with boys. What does a 12 year old know about sexual relations? 

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    Re: Preteen thinks she's pansexual
    « Reply #24 on: November 08, 2018, 02:00:35 PM »
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  • While this is good advice in one respect, you could also end up having your daughter taken from you if you do this.  In many places not being supportive of a child's "gender identity" is treated as child abuse.  It is seen as justification for  removing the child from the "abusive" parents.

    If you decide to homeschool, you cannot say or do anything to suggest that it has anything to do with your concerns about this "pansexualism".  Even talking to your daughter in a way that discourages this behaviour is putting you at risk of being charged with abuse.  While she is probably just going through a phase and does not actually have an attachment to sin at this point, these situations have been politicized by activists who use them to force their views on others.  You are at risk of "being made an example of" by these sorts of people.

    In your situation I would seriously consider moving.  Register in a school in the new location but then start homeschooling after the paperwork is done.

    This is true especially if you live in the Communist State of California where parents no longer have any rights.

    If you live in California, and the daughter feels, thinks, or believes that her parents do not support her decision to be a lesbian, transgender, or pangender, then she can talk with her grandparents, relatives, friends, teachers, pediatrician, and/or school nurse and file charges of abuse.

    Check your state laws.
    Lord have mercy.

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    « Reply #25 on: November 08, 2018, 02:26:26 PM »
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  • I had to look up the word pansexual. It means she is a lesbian that also goes with boys. What does a 12 year old know about sexual relations?
    She knows what she's been programmed to know. She's right, everyone else is wrong and their opinion does not matter anyway.


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    « Reply #26 on: November 08, 2018, 02:38:36 PM »
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  • That would explain it.

    Sending children to public schools nowadays is simply not an option for Catholic parents, or any sane person, really.

    Homeschool your children no matter what sacrifice you must do. Your daughter's soul will be corrupted if you don't. Pull her out of those Cultural Marxist indoctrination machines.

    - Cantarella
    And pull her out of Religious Ed Classes. She's probably learning all about the holocaust and Nelson Mandela, or whoever is the bright light of this age.

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    « Reply #27 on: November 08, 2018, 02:45:17 PM »
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    I hope you're right, but I highly doubt it. The damage that's been done cannot be undone except by much prayer and penance on the part of the 12 year old. But first she has to want to change, which is very unlikely, especially for an indoctrinated 12 year old. 

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    While these things are true (i.e. prayer, wanting to change), it doesn't follow from the need of those things that it's "too late."  That's terrible advice.  Tell the parent that it's too late to save the kid and they'll just keep them in public school, all but ensuring their kid's demise.  
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    What natural hope remains is in removing the kid from the problem, which is the godless environment that's introduced, legitimized, and reinforced the ideas the girl has picked up.  Children are malleable.  Less so as they get older, but still malleable.
    It was not advice, nor could it have even been intended to be advice, rather, it is simple reality and it is based on personal experience.
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    Disturb the child's programming, and the family will have hell to pay - that is the way it works, that is the expectation. A 12 yo child who has had her mind perverted like that, can rip a family apart. I sincerely hope this case is different.    
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    What should not  be expected, is that the brainwashing can be undone at all by anyone, except her. Were it possible that the brainwashing were to be undone, that would be the exception not the rule. That's just reality.  
     

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    Re: Preteen thinks she's pansexual
    « Reply #28 on: November 08, 2018, 02:49:40 PM »
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  • And pull her out of Religious Ed Classes. She's probably learning all about the holocaust and Nelson Mandela, or whoever is the bright light of this age.
    I wrote this. These things were the predominant theme of my niece's Confirmation preparation classes in Catholic Italy.
    Does the OP say the Rosary as a family? I think that's the start in order to sort out this mess.

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    « Reply #29 on: November 08, 2018, 03:52:49 PM »
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  • I had to look up the word pansexual. It means she is a lesbian that also goes with boys. What does a 12 year old know about sexual relations?
    Can anyone (perhaps an SJW or liberal who is expert in such things) explain to me the difference between "bisexual" and "pansexual"? There are only 2 genders, therefore only 2 possible scenarios when it comes to copulation or anything else.  Therefore "bi" and "pan" are the same thing.
    In a similar vein, please describe what the "3rd gender" is. Everything is explained in terms of male and female, because those are the only concepts of gender that exist in nature.

     

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