Please pray for my mother and I.  I've had to tell her that because she has made a number of decisions over the past several years, that her decisions have made it difficult for me to be able to have much contact with her.  She is not someone who can understand why.  I explained because she had the chance to become Catholic but blew it, now living in an adulterous relationship, I can't go over to her house, not even for celebrations.  And that I avoid meals with her because I can't pray with her because she is a heretic (I know, it sucks having to tell your own mother she's a heretic).  And because she has the vax, I need to avoid her until answers are established for the problem of shedding.

What kills me is that none of this is something she is able to understand.

Thank you.

Have you discussed this with a good Priest before you made these decisions? If not, please do.

 

Please seek counsel from a wise priest.  You say your mother had an opportunity to become Catholic but chose otherwise.  To me, that implies that she is not Catholic.  We do not expect non-Catholics to meet the standards of Catholics, especially not those of Traditional Catholics.  If your mother violates natural law, ie. has a same sex partner or actively condones such behavior, if she practices what she acknowledges to be Satanic or occultic religion, is grossly immoral in your presence or engages publicly in unnatural vice, then yes, you need to cut the ties and have nothing to do with her.  My guess, however, is that this isn’t the case.  There is a fine line to walk between keeping communication with her open or driving her closer to Hell.  Think of her as your average “nice, but not religious” secular American.  How do you treat such a person?  Do make sure your mother knows “what the Church teaches” on the major issues.  (Put it in those those terms, NOT in “where I stand on.......”).  If you wish, PM me as I may be able to assist you if I have more info.  

It does not sound like you have to disassociate from your Mother. Rather you should associate with her on neutral ground, going alone with her for coffee, at your home or a coffee shop, or whatever. It is vital that you keep her close and show your love for her. And keep praying for her.

I’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through this. One of the reasons why I joined this forum was to reply to your thread (probably not using the correct terminology.)

I know this is a difficult situation that you’re in. I hope that you maintain contact with your mother because disassociating yourself from someone is one of the most extreme things you can do, and can be the most hurtful, for both of you. Remember that mothers have extremely strong bonds with their children, this is the person that cared for you from the very beginning. 

If you keep the dialogue open, and remain in her life, you can at least continue to show her that you love her, and perhaps she will start to see what’s wrong in her life. I will be praying to the Blessed Virgin Mary, that she will provide comfort for you, and help your mother.