Op here.
Ladislaus, I agree with you in the majority of things you said but you don't know me, don't know the dynsmics of the relationship with my husband and don't know if I nag on him or not. You are just making asumptions.
Of course Gods grace can do anything... but thats anothet point. A person firmly stuck in modernism and believing mothers who stay at home are lazy and dont do anything... well... only Gods grace will chsnge their minds.
About the "dont live in the future" point I agree, but a woman wants to make future plans about home, children and a lot of things. I can't plsn anything, even about a home, and it's very hard. But that's another thing and I want to discuss it.
The priest told me he knows my hubby suffered a lot and that I would have to lead him to conservantism because of his modernist traits. I'm tired of triying to do anything and just receiving criticism so I will do what he wants and don't bother myself anymore.
Hubby is OK, is calm, so everything is fine.