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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #45 on: September 02, 2019, 01:14:28 PM »
I forgot to mention another opinion your husband shares with pro-abortion fanatics: a disregard for life and the intrinsic value of motherhood as a dignified and worthy calling for women. They both deny the fact that motherhood, including the teaching and raising of the children, is the highest calling for women, after the religious life.
Together with that belief is a foolish but religious (taken on faith) belief that women are best "actualized", fulfilled, or have the best personal growth by having a career and slaving away in an office, working for The Man 40 hours a week.  Female careers are glorified, even though the reality of such careers usually doesn't live up to the hype. Fantasy: I'm going to cure cancer as a scientist. Reality: putting in 40 hours a week in a lab, staring into a microscope and running blood tests. Banal, boring stuff. Fantasy: having a career will make me independent and happy. Reality: most career women end up single and childless in their 40s, and a huge percentage of these women end up on mind-altering prescription drugs for depression.
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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #46 on: September 02, 2019, 05:23:10 PM »
Quote from: Anonymous on August 27, 2019, 05:12:51 PM
I asked to 2 priests.
One advised me not to marry.
The other told me to do so.
What reasons did they give?
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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #47 on: September 02, 2019, 05:28:42 PM »
Quote from: Ladislaus on August 28, 2019, 05:33:32 AM
You must accept the fact that now subjection to your husband is in fact God's will.
Very good point. One very good thing about obedience is that it gives peace and assurance that one is in fact doing God's will. Doing God's will is all that matters.
A subject never sins in obeying a superior, even if the superior sins in commanding (unless the superior commands one to sin).
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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #48 on: September 04, 2019, 06:45:43 AM »
Quote from: Anonymous on September 02, 2019, 01:14:28 PM
I forgot to mention another opinion your husband shares with pro-abortion fanatics: a disregard for life and the intrinsic value of motherhood as a dignified and worthy calling for women. They both deny the fact that motherhood, including the teaching and raising of the children, is the highest calling for women, after the religious life.
Together with that belief is a foolish but religious (taken on faith) belief that women are best "actualized", fulfilled, or have the best personal growth by having a career and slaving away in an office, working for The Man 40 hours a week.  Female careers are glorified, even though the reality of such careers usually doesn't live up to the hype. Fantasy: I'm going to cure cancer as a scientist. Reality: putting in 40 hours a week in a lab, staring into a microscope and running blood tests. Banal, boring stuff. Fantasy: having a career will make me independent and happy. Reality: most career women end up single and childless in their 40s, and a huge percentage of these women end up on mind-altering prescription drugs for depression.
OP here
I agree with you. I dont believe married women should go to work. Its stupid.
I know some women who were young in the 1980s. They were at home, they could be with their children. They divorced in the 90s so they could be modern women. Now, they are 50-60s and they HAVE TO work because thdy distroyed their marriages, relation with their children is nonexistant (as they were not present at their teen years) and their "partner" would not provide for her. They have what they deserve... and its not the paradise they hoped for.
About my hubby: he was raised by a career mother ...
Its very sad. I pray for both of us and I hope he will change his mind.

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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #49 on: September 04, 2019, 06:49:34 AM »
Quote from: Anonymous on September 02, 2019, 05:28:42 PM
Very good point. One very good thing about obedience is that it gives peace and assurance that one is in fact doing God's will. Doing God's will is all that matters.
A subject never sins in obeying a superior, even if the superior sins in commanding (unless the superior commands one to sin).
OP here.
I know its my duty to obey. Its out of question.
And I was scared about leaving children at daycare and sining, but Ladislaus told me it would be my husbands responsibility if something bad happens (because its his will and Im only obbeying).
Altough I believe the line who divides simply obbeying and obbeying to comiting a sin its very thin...
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