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Änσnymσus

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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #30 on: August 28, 2019, 10:43:59 AM »
Quote from: Anonymous on August 28, 2019, 10:04:39 AM
Also your husband is rather dim.  Does he have any idea what daycare costs?  Unless you have no debt and are qualified to make a handsome salary, you'll be working just to pay for daycare.  Why not skip the whole charade and just stay home?  The finances will work out the same but the home life will be way better.
No! Her husband would hate that idea!
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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #31 on: August 28, 2019, 10:50:42 AM »
Op, if you’d like to ever talk I’m available. Just message me and I’ll give you my Facebook link, insta, or email. I understand how a worldly husbands actions can disrupt a family, marriage, and even peace with yourself. I have some resources you could use, and we can even do a bible study together. This would be about *you* as we cannot change husbands, we must use our influence to soften their hearts towards God then let God take over! 
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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #32 on: August 28, 2019, 12:39:49 PM »
Not sure what it is that I gather from this thread, but is it is better to be single wishing you were married, or to be married wishing you were single? I think the former, better to be single wishing you were married.
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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #33 on: August 28, 2019, 01:50:41 PM »
OP here. Thanks to all of you.
I really appreciate your answers.

I think my hubby isn't very worldly but has some worldly traits, bacause of his upbringing system.


On one hand, he wants me to work outside. On the other hand, he says he will let me guide our children upringing in "difficult things": for example, not allowing daughters dressing by worldly inmodest standards. He says "I will let you guide them" and I know he thinks modesty is an important thing although he isn't as conservative as I am. He is not saying I will be in charge, and I dont want that. Just in those points he will lean on my conservative view.

Thank you Vintagewife, I will write to you.
Ladislaus, thank you for your answer, I was scared about being responsible against God if I agree to husband's wishes.



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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #34 on: August 28, 2019, 03:25:56 PM »
Quote from: Ladislaus on August 28, 2019, 10:02:24 AM
I wouldn't worry about this yet, since it hasn't happened.  
This is where I'm at with this thread.  Let's not put the cart before the horse.  OP, you have no idea how long it will take you to conceive a child (that is, if God blesses you with children).  
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