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Offline Ladislaus

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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #25 on: August 28, 2019, 10:02:24 AM »
Quote from: Anonymous on August 28, 2019, 08:39:59 AM
Im worried and scaried about leaving children at day care. If I submit (wich I agree I have to do) and something bad happens to my children.... I will be responsible in God's eyes???,?

I wouldn't worry about this yet, since it hasn't happened.  Sometimes the arrival of a new baby changes people's minds.  I've know many parents who said they would use day care, but then looking at the baby's face changed their minds quickly.

No, you are not responsible.  It's all on your husband.  You could charitably explain the risk he's incurring, but since it's his authority and his decision, he will be the one held accountable in God's eyes.
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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #26 on: August 28, 2019, 10:04:39 AM »
Also your husband is rather dim.  Does he have any idea what daycare costs?  Unless you have no debt and are qualified to make a handsome salary, you'll be working just to pay for daycare.  Why not skip the whole charade and just stay home?  The finances will work out the same but the home life will be way better. 
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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #27 on: August 28, 2019, 10:04:49 AM »
Quote from: Anonymous on August 28, 2019, 09:15:32 AM
The best way to argue against this is to sell him on the idea that if you stay at home with the children, you can "add value".  Not in monetary terms ...

Have you checked into how much decent day care even costs?  Unless you're making a LOT of money, it could wipe out most of your income.
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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #28 on: August 28, 2019, 10:05:24 AM »
Quote from: Anonymous on August 28, 2019, 10:04:39 AM
Also your husband is rather dim.  Does he have any idea what daycare costs?  Unless you have no debt and are qualified to make a handsome salary, you'll be working just to pay for daycare.  Why not skip the whole charade and just stay home?  The finances will work out the same but the home life will be way better.

LOL.  You beat me to this post by 10 seconds.
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Re: Please pray for me
« Reply #29 on: August 28, 2019, 10:06:43 AM »
Quote from: Anonymous on August 28, 2019, 10:04:49 AM
Have you checked into how much decent day care even costs?  Unless you're making a LOT of money, it could wipe out most of your income.
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Right.  The only way this makes sense to me is if the husband makes, say, close to six figures and the wife could make, say, 70+.  Then daycare makes a bit more fiscal sense (still doesn't make any moral sense).  And then factor in the sort of debt that is usually associated with a young person's capacity to make a handsome income, they're just running in place to stand still.  Stupid. 
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