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Im a newlywed.

I love my hubby very much but I feel very depressed. He's catholic and even attends LM but he has some modern views...

He thinks women should work outside home and I do not. I work outside... i dont have another option.

Hubby's mother always worked outside home. His parent agreed to this. My hubby had very little attachment to his parents because of this. 

We go to LM all sundays and we were validly married by a trad priest. A lot of our friends have traditional views (some go to SSPX). 

Im very scared.

He is against homeschooling. Im terrified of having kids....

I understand men who are married to a not "too catholic woman" but Im in the same case, married to a good and caring husband but very troubled because of his past....

Of course divorce is not a solution. 

We had some fights because of this... and I said to him that he has to respect my views. That I respect his views... (women outside home) but he has to respect my view, who has 4000+ years .... and his view only 40 ???? 

I know its hard for him. Recognizing women should remain at home= recognizing his mother had other priorities. Not her children. Mi FIL was also responsible: he encouraged it b/c he didnt want to have money or properties in common with her.

Its very sad. Please never allow your daughters to marry in this scenario.

Please pray for us to do what is God's will.

I asked to 2 priests.
One advised me not to marry.
The other told me to do so.

Prayers 🙂 remain a good dutiful wife, and you’ll soften his heart towards it in time. Pray for him often, and offer masses for your marriage. Yes, these things should have been dealt with before, but it’s to late now to worry about. Focus on the future, his good qualities, and your marriage promise to God.