Im a newlywed.
Congratulations and blessings on your marriage.
I love my hubby very much .
OK! So it's early days yet. Marriage takes a lot of adjusting to. It can be a bit of a comedown after all the excitement of the wedding, but now is the time to concentrate on getting to know each other and to grow together.
but I feel very depressed.
How is your general health? You sound unnecessarily anxious.
Can you talk to your Mum?
To your doctor?
Is this a pattern for you to be anxious?
He thinks women should work outside home and I do not. I work outside... i dont have another option.
You have no children yet.
What would you be doing if you were not working?
How many hours do you work?
Do you have enough income ?
Im very scared.
What are you scared of?
He is against homeschooling.
He may change his mind, if you build more confidence yourself and your decisions.
Im terrified of having kids....
Why are you terrified of having kids?
Im married to a good and caring husband but very troubled because of his past....
Why not live in the present? The past is done and gone, whatever it is. There is no way to change it. Accept, and thank God, and your husband, for what you have.
Of course divorce is not a solution.
Is you husband thinking of divorce? Or only you?
Give your husband positive affirmation and encouragement.
There will be enough problems in marriage. Deal with what comes, not what might, or might not come. Live in the present. It is all you have.
We had some fights because of this... and I said to him that he has to respect my views.
Be careful of laying down the law to him. Be meek and humble. He will love you for it.
And before careful not to criticise your m-i-l.
Please never allow your daughters to marry in this scenario.
Is it really as bad as you paint it, or is that your depression speaking?
Please pray for us to do what is God's will.