Author Topic: Outside of indult (Read 749 times)

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #20 on:** July 24, 2026, 08:48:10 AM »

Quote from: Änσnymσus on July 24, 2026, 08:21:15 AM

It’s so difficult for people to meet potential spouses these days. It does sound as if she didn’t really know you and possibly has a boyfriend. I think men should just go up to women and ask for their number. So what if lots say no, eventually someone will say yes and it might be the right person!!

Was this post written by a women? Very out of touch.

laststand · « **Reply #21 on:** July 24, 2026, 01:46:51 PM »

Quote from: Änσnymσus on July 24, 2026, 08:21:15 AM

It’s so difficult for people to meet potential spouses these days. It does sound as if she didn’t really know you and possibly has a boyfriend. I think men should just go up to women and ask for their number. So what if lots say no, eventually someone will say yes and it might be the right person!!

This right here is exactly why so many young men in tradition are fed up. All the responsibility lies on them. Never mind that throughout Catholic history it was duty of the parents to assist their children in finding a spouse.

Telling young men to talk to all the young women and asking them all out is telling them to emulate the behavior of men who prowl about to fornicate. No discernment, no standards, just have ice in your veins with perfect confidence. It's a numbers game. Yep, it's just a game.

Pathetic.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #22 on:** July 24, 2026, 04:30:41 PM »

Quote from: Änσnymσus on July 24, 2026, 08:47:38 AM

I had previously spoken to this girl before and it seemed like was she interested, so i was surprised she didn't remember my name.

And frankly I do regret going, not only because it's the indult but i shouldn't be courting at this time. I was letting my passions get the better of me, especially since I thought someone finally that I found attractive was interested in me. Ladies don't so strong interest in someone if you aren't actually interested in them.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #23 on:** **Yesterday** at 04:34:35 AM »

Quote from: laststand on July 24, 2026, 01:46:51 PM

This right here is exactly why so many young men in tradition are fed up. All the responsibility lies on them. Never mind that throughout Catholic history it was duty of the parents to assist their children in finding a spouse.

Well, since that is no longer happening for the most part, Catholics whose vocation is to marriage have to try other things to find a spouse. Attending the indult may be one of them within specific parameters. I wouldn’t recommend just going blindly to the indult for the purpose of checking out the ladies! (Major creep alert!) However, if a man is interested in a specific woman who attends, it may be acceptable so long as the man isn’t putting his faith at risk, in which case he should not participate in the Mass. If, perchance, the woman accepts to
court him and it looks as if the relationship will go somewhere, they must discuss and resolve the indult issue before getting in too deep. If there is no openness to hearing Mass elsewhere, it’s not too late to cordially break it off. The man should be the leader in this decision as women are more likely to follow emotions.
I’m sure Solomon did not wake up one day and say, “Today I’m going to commit idolatry.” But that’s exactly what he did after he allowed his natural attraction to the beautiful ladies overrule his better knowledge.

laststand · « **Reply #24 on:** **Yesterday** at 06:45:55 AM »

Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 04:34:35 AM

Well, since that is no longer happening for the most part, Catholics whose vocation is to marriage have to try other things to find a spouse. Attending the indult may be one of them within specific parameters. I wouldn’t recommend just going blindly to the indult for the purpose of checking out the ladies! (Major creep alert!) However, if a man is interested in a specific woman who attends, it may be acceptable so long as the man isn’t putting his faith at risk, in which case he should not participate in the Mass. If, perchance, the woman accepts to
court him and it looks as if the relationship will go somewhere, they must discuss and resolve the indult issue before getting in too deep. If there is no openness to hearing Mass elsewhere, it’s not too late to cordially break it off. The man should be the leader in this decision as women are more likely to follow emotions.
I’m sure Solomon did not wake up one day and say, “Today I’m going to commit idolatry.” But that’s exactly what he did after he allowed his natural attraction to the beautiful ladies overrule his better knowledge.

It might be best for traditional Catholic men not to marry until the fathers start doing their job. That will certainly get the attention of the clergy, fathers, and young women. Besides, it is not justice to require the young men to clean up the mess another group made.

So far the contradictory advice young men have received:
1. Men should go up to women and ask for their number.
2. Don't go to the indult just to check out the ladies. So he should act effeminate and dance around the issue of why he is there.

He certainly isn't there to attend Mass. What should his motivation be?

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