Around last summer, I have little doubt that a moment of "sword breaking" occurred, quietly and suddenly.
I realized with guidance from God that the end is that you want others to stop their sin, turn around and come to Jesus. And the fear of hell was the first step of acquiescence that certain people I really "hate" due to their misconduct...I'm going to eventually have to cave in and give up "wrath" or desiring their destruction/damnation. For distant public figures, it has become rather easy to desire their salvation. I eventually enrolled Gloria Steinem in a perpetual Mass for $10 because she's still alive. It's not a 'feeling' type of concern. It's quite "detached" for me emotionally to be moved to enroll someone for Masses.