I had to laugh and agree that sitting next to a family with children and a fussy baby is more to contend with. And I agree with Marsha, move and Offering it up is a great idea.
For me, I see this lady coming into church with a kitchen size bag full and her other bag, purse. She is dementia and a husband who left her years ago for she was too holy for her, he said. Very sad, for regression is worse than death and the mind can break.
So, when you go to Mass, God knows what you are experiencing and offer it up. Songbird